Re:this body is slowing down

[Guest guest]

Sorry about so much pain Rox. Hope the doc can offer you some help.

Please don't apologize for venting. That is what we are here for and it

certainly can make us feel less alone to know others know what we are

going through. Write all you want.

Sandrea

[Guest guest]

Thanks alot for listening to what I have to say. I been just reading letters but

it is getting to me now cause no one here is listening to me. And if I say any

thing to my Famly about this happening they all start up insted of just listen

to me. Listen to them all but they don't when I talk. They all think that Me

hubbie is using me. What is wrong with this picture is back Sept 23,1999 her had

hurt his back so bad that he would not walk no more and no one sees that. I was

the only one till last April was the only one that was working. Now I can't work

any more. Cause they think it is falt that I got like this cause of that. And I

try to get them to hear me and they will not. But I do know what they are

saying. but they only see what they see and that it is. Just because he will sit

by the computer in this chair that he said that is better for him And playing

the games on it. To keep his mind off of what is bugging him. That him is lazy

and using me. As

of right now we are about to lose your tailer cause we are out of more. The

tailer is paid for, But we still have to pay the lot rent. But I am glad that we

are where we are right now cause we would of lost our home a long time ago. I am

praying that one of us SSDI will go threw petty soon. The only way for me to

deal with this all is to watch funny moves or read funny book or any thing

funny. Thanks alot I need to do

this. Rox.

[Guest guest]

we all need to Rox............that's what we are here for. To listen, to care,

to show our support, even in this small way.

You are in my prayers

STL Jane

Vernon Sellars wrote:

Thanks alot for listening to what I have to say. I been just reading

letters but it is getting to me now cause no one here is listening to me. And if

I say any thing to my Famly about this happening they all start up insted of

just listen to me. Listen to them all but they don't when I talk.

[Guest guest]

Hi Rox, Oh, families can be so tiresome sometimes…don’t take it on dear, you

have enough on your plate. I too hope your disability comes through soon!

TC, Aylwin xox

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From: CFAlliance [mailto:CFAlliance ] On

Behalf Of Vernon Sellars

Sent: Tuesday, October 02, 2007 6:59 AM

To: CFAlliance

Subject: Re:this body is slowing down

Thanks alot for listening to what I have to say. I been just reading letters

but it is getting to me now cause no one here is listening to me. And if I

say any thing to my Famly about this happening they all start up insted of

just listen to me.

[Guest guest]

Hi Rox,

It sure does sound like life is rough for you right now. I understand

about your family not listening and judging your husband. I would only

worry about him taking advantage of you if you feel that he is,

otherwise they just don't know what they are talking about. When I am

with my family I often feel like I am invisible. They often talk to one

another and yet if I say something it is like I never even said a word,

the sound never came out of my mouth. They just keep talking to one

another and all and I might as well not even be there. It amazes me how

this happens but unfortunately is not a new experience for me. That has

been the case a good part of my life. And it seems that if what I am

saying or doing has anything to do with illness it makes it even more

invisible. I don't get it, but I can definitely empathize with what you

are going through. I am sorry that you will lose your home soon. I

hope the disability does indeed come through for one or both of you

soon. Are there any resources out there to provide you with a home

while you wait?

Sandrea

[Guest guest]

I have to Go to lake zuick Ill The 20th of this month to see 2 Doctors that is

1hour an 15 mins. that is going to be a real ball. Rox

Re:this body is slowing down

Hi Rox, Oh, families can be so tiresome sometimes…don’t take it on dear, you

have enough on your plate. I too hope your disability comes through soon!

TC, Aylwin xox

[Guest guest]

I know we all have to have a ear to listen with but some poeple just don't want

to take the time at all but when they want you to listen to them boy do they

have a cow about it. if you know what i mean. Rox.

Re: Re:this body is slowing down

we all need to Rox......... ...that's what we are here for. To listen, to care,

to show our support, even in this small way.

You are in my prayers

STL Jane

[Guest guest]

I am not sure what there is for us to get help. I have to check on what else is

out there. Luckly my son is grown up now but then if he was little I would get

more help all over. I well keep you iformed what is going on. and thanks for

caring. Rox.

Re:this body is slowing down

Hi Rox,

It sure does sound like life is rough for you right now. I understand

about your family not listening and judging your husband. I would only

worry about him taking advantage of you if you feel that he is,

otherwise they just don't know what they are talking about. When I am

with my family I often feel like I am invisible.

[Guest guest]

I know EXACTLY what you mean.........some people's mouths are much busier than

their ears! I've learned that there are only certain people I can TALK to, who

are great listeners and very supportive. And on the other end of the spectrum,

I am the great listener for others. I just work with what I've got, you know

what I mean? lol

STL Jane

Vernon Sellars wrote:

I know we all have to have a ear to listen with but some poeple just

don't want to take the time at all but when they want you to listen to them boy

do they have a cow about it. if you know what i mean. Rox.

[Guest guest]

Yes I will rest up before I go And get copys of what they said too. Now so you

know SSDI is sending me there and the letter said that they are not going to

tell them what the case is going to be when they are done SSDI will deside what

is up. I think they sent me to a Doctor that does not know me or I now them..

Get the dift. We will see what is going on.

Rox.

Re:this body is slowing down

Oh dear, a lot of effort, but worth is if they are the right docs and they

can actually help you. Rest up first! TC, Aylwin xox

[Guest guest]

Hi Aylwin,

Hope you are liking your new place. Where did you end up moving?

That's great that you moved and found a place.

Aloha,

Kulia

- In CFAlliance , " J. Catchpole " wrote:

>

> Oh dear, a lot of effort, but worth is if they are the right docs

and they

> can actually help you. Rest up first! TC, Aylwin xox

>

> Re:this body is slowing down

>

> I have to Go to lake zuick Ill The 20th of this month to see 2

Doctors that

> is 1hour an 15 mins. that is going to be a real ball.

>

[Guest guest]

Hi Kulia, so good to hear from you! How are you doing these days? I just

found another dear little cabin on the other side of the same mountain that

suits my needs. I had to pay for others to do most of the work…and so have

not paid such a steep price as usual. It is in a grove of magnificent

Madronas (we call them arbutus, it’s a west coast tree) and fir…southern

exposure, lots of windows, a cosy woodstove (with electric for backup!) and

a marvelous antique bathtub – huge! – really very comfy and fine. Even a

little veggie garden that I am harvesting, though I did not plant

it…tomatoes, zukes, chard and beets and carrots and cilantro – lovely to be

eating so fresh. Anyway you take care and let me/us know how you are! XOX

Aylwin

[Guest guest]

Well let’s pray that they are good docs who can figure things out…and

mostly, support your claim! TC, Aylwin xox

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From: CFAlliance [mailto:CFAlliance ] On

Behalf Of Vernon Sellars

Sent: Friday, October 05, 2007 7:50 AM

To: CFAlliance

Subject: Re:this body is slowing down

Yes I will rest up before I go And get copys of what they said too. Now so

you know SSDI is sending me there and the letter said that they are not

going to tell them what the case is going to be when they are done SSDI will

deside what is up. I think they sent me to a Doctor that does not know me or