Guest guest Posted October 15, 2009 Report Share Posted October 15, 2009 I have just had this experience... when I started at my current job 8.5 years ago I was 50kg heavier. Now I am leaving to take on a new role, my current boss gave a speech at my lunch today saying that when I came in they knew I was the right person for the job, but that I was 'big' and previously all others in this role had been skinny minnie types. Well after 2 weeks one of the directors went to my boss and said he loved me, I was fantastic at my job, excellent with the clients etc... so I guess I am just so happy they were able to see thru the fat girl and recognise the skill. I feel a bit sad about it - happy that I am now not that girl any more, but sad that it was an 'issue' that was discussed prior to my employment. When my boss was talking to me about it today, he said am I okay with him mentioning this story. I thought about it and said no worries, I said in fact I am used to being ignored and discriminated against, its nice that it has a happy ending and go ahead - might help to break down some prejudices that fatties have to deal with. I have been interviewing for my current role, the one candidate that was suitable, like me is a big girl. I once again had to deal with the weight issue, however this time I was the one doing the defending. I said she was the best on paper, and the best in the interview process. They agreed and so this woman has won out. I feel good about it, it was the right decision and I hope that it turns out as I anticipate as it will really warm the cockles of my heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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