Guest guest Posted December 23, 2003 Report Share Posted December 23, 2003 On Mon, Dec 22, 2003 at 10:23:56PM -0500, halperin6@... wrote: > I can relate... thanks..I am 52 and I still avoid families > and friends... I ususally have to work.. and I do feel guilty...I > was invited to a party tomorrow and I dont really want to go.. > unfortunately my son had told her --a friend --I had to work and she > called and i told her i didnt.. drats... than I had no excuse to say > no... now i am stuck going to a party Crap... I also avoid family... > its like going to a dentist to go to a family gathering.. and I > really dont know why...i think I feel they are judging me and of > course I am judging them... That sounds like a good find to me, Roslyn. I love how you turned it around. > oh well... ill be glad when the holidays are over with... xmas bah > humbug... If I were never invited to friends or family I would feel > bad and when I am invited I feel bad... guess I am not loving what > is... am I ? Well, if What Is is Roslyn feels bad, can you love Roslyn in the midst of the feelings she doesn't care for? Would that be a way of loving What Is? > This friend who invited me to a party tomorrow is always selling > something.. I wonder if she will be selling something... i certainly > hope not.. if she is I wonder if i have the guts to get up and > leave.. I doubt it...i should ask her if she is selling something.. > but I didnt I was chicken... damn ... Would it be helpful to turn this one around? How would you do that? > merry xmas and happy hannukah to all.. and happy new year... the > recluse.. roslyn Happy Holidays to you, Roslyn. P.S. I can certainly find my own bah humbugs around this time of year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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