Re: Just Another Story? - Tim

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> Carl Jung says we are both sexes, and maturity involves an inner

> marriage of male and female - then the outer partner becomes an

> optional extra.

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> Chatting about 'love' on another group, I came up with " Love is when

> the One looks at Herself thru two pairs of eyes. " Should get me in

> the book of quotations, don't you think? Love, Tim

I agree with Jung - and Carolyn Myss. Both basically agree that when

you connect to a space inside yourself - the story of what the " other "

is doing dies, the 'need' for another - dies, the fear of what the

other will do - dies because their importance is diminished. This

sounds beautiful to me. Would that I could be in a relationship and

be this free at the same time! Whew!

I think when driving down the street and at a stoplight I look over

and see a Cloony clone in another car and I think - well you know -

I'm not quite at that level of maturity. What I like is not being

there any more is simply too painful and it scares me too much to even

bother with a relationship...until I do the work to earn one with

myself first.

Blessings - Jan