Re: despairv - AprilMerrie

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> Tabrina, I was a daughter who heard her mom have sex - often drunk

> and either with strangers or the latest looser boyfriend. She had

no shame at all and I hated her for it. Her sexuality was raw, ugly,

> and self-indulgent. She used sex not only as a form of power to

> bully men, but proably as a form of self-hatred. She never

> considered whether we might hear her or not. She didn't care at

all about that.

Hi AprilMerrie,

Are you sure that those things you wrote about your mom are true?

Do you believe that she should have done things differently?

I heard:

**She had loser boyfriends.

**She had sex with strangers.

**She was often drunk.

Is that true?

You could add -- And it means that.... to those judgments, also. Then

do inquiry from there.

Some of your sentences from that section up above could be brought to

inquiry as they are, too.

If you're interested.

With love,

*mona