Guest guest Posted August 12, 2003 Report Share Posted August 12, 2003 thanks for the emails on love.. Heidi.. i also want to defend underdogs.. when I watch a sports event im often for the losing team... I guess it is because I felt like the underdog.. as a kid... i was annoyed by some caregivers crticising a client and realized doing the work..i was critical of them being critical.. well if he wasnt a looney tunes we wouldnt have a job... I felt they were ungreatful and not appreciatiing this mans money pays us... and do we have a right to treat him like dirt..putting him down in front of him.. he has some dementis but i think he understnands anyway ---- well I guess they need him to let off steam... It did make me feel superior to them... to be critical of them if only in my mind... oh well.. They should stop gossiping i shoudl stop in my head.. I suppose if I allowed them beingness and him beingness.. and myself beingness.. i would be better off... Hubbard used that phrase.. allow beingness... I have an analogy for the work.. I have been doing crossword puzzles.. and I realize when I am sure an answer is correct.. it makes the puzzle impossible to complete.. and you get stuck... because if you are positive you are right on a word or an underlying belief...and you are wrong. it messes you up so you cant get the right answer for the other words... if that makes sense... only when you question that word can you get the right answer... I felt superior to them.. and thought I was right.. and yet maybe babying the guy is just as offensive... and I tend to do that... oh well.. more work.. love, roslyn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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