Guest guest Posted December 16, 2002 Report Share Posted December 16, 2002 Most of you seem to say that nadas get even worse with the arrival of grandkids. Has anyone been in my position when they first had kids - virtually no contact with nada anyway? If so, what, if anything, did you tell her about the child? I have enough morning sickness without nada-induced nausea! LOL. Thanks. My nada would have definatley used my kids against me, if I hadn't decided years ago that kids were out of the question. I see what she does with my brother and ex-sister-in-law. My brother is all good and they are making up stories about my ex-sister-in-law to get the kids away from her. My brother is also making up stories of his own. To make the court case look better for him, my nadafada are buying him a house, sending him to school, and supporting him indefinatley. They crack me up! The lenghts they will go to to get their own way, amazing! We all make mistakes and have good and bad days. We have to believe in our basic goodness to beable to ward off the things nada says. Even if she says you are a bad parent, or aunt in my case, you know you are a good person. Not caring about what nada says is one of the first steps I took toward my real self. Don't let her hold you back any longer. Jen To get off the list, send a blank message to ModOasis-unsubscribe . Send questions & amp; concerns to ModOasis-owner . & quot;Stop Walking on Eggshells, & quot; a primer for non-BPs can be ordered via 1-888-35-SHELL (). For the table of contents, see http://www.BPDCentral.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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