Guest guest Posted October 1, 2003 Report Share Posted October 1, 2003 Coyote, Your daughter sounds like she knows you well! I'm glad everytime you look at it you smile, because you realize the importance! Keep smiling and at least tke a multi-vitamin. I'm a big vitamin and herb freak here!. And BTW, I wish everyone could have a brother like I was blessed with. Please take care and Hugs, Beth L. > > Coyote, > > I was going to say I'm sorry that I cannot understand what you > are > > going through with your brother, but, I am not sorry. I am sorry > > that YOU are going through this hard time with him. I wish > everyone > > could have had a brother like I had. It was just him and I, and we > > were best buddies. He was 7 years older than myself, and he passed > > away of a heartattack 8 years ago next month (only 45 years old). > > The only thing that I tease about being upset with him about, is > > leaving me here to take care of the " parenting the parent " alone! > I > > always say that when I get to Heaven, I'm gonna kick his can! LOL! > I > > was really into the kicking of his can when I cared for my father > > till he passed 19 months ago. Now, with Mom and this LBD ,and her > > other health problems, he is really gonna get it when I get there! > I > > miss him so much at times. > > As for problems that pile up on you (everyday ones and > > otherwise), you have to find something to relieve some of the > > stress. If not, you will end up sick as well. You need to take > care > > of yourself if you want to take care of someone else. I know how > > tempting it is to go back to bed after the kids go to school and > so > > forth, been there, done that. It was called severe clinical > > depression. So be careful, take care of yourself, and know that we > > all have problems ready to take us over if we let them. They just > > come in different forms. And so do the everyday bleesings that are > > sent our way! > > Hugs and please take care, > > Beth L. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 1, 2003 Report Share Posted October 1, 2003 Hi Beth, yeah, I wish everyone had a sibling like the one you were blessed with too!! I was just thinking....it is WAY better to have wonderful brother who is around for a shorter time, than a total creep who's around forever. At least you have wonderful, warm memories of him (even if you are gonna kick his butt next time you see him!) BTW, I'm taking the multivitamins, and feel much better today. Thanks for caring! Hugs, coyote > > > Coyote, > > > I was going to say I'm sorry that I cannot understand what you > > are > > > going through with your brother, but, I am not sorry. I am sorry > > > that YOU are going through this hard time with him. I wish > > everyone > > > could have had a brother like I had. It was just him and I, and > we > > > were best buddies. He was 7 years older than myself, and he > passed > > > away of a heartattack 8 years ago next month (only 45 years > old). > > > The only thing that I tease about being upset with him about, is > > > leaving me here to take care of the " parenting the parent " > alone! > > I > > > always say that when I get to Heaven, I'm gonna kick his can! > LOL! > > I > > > was really into the kicking of his can when I cared for my > father > > > till he passed 19 months ago. Now, with Mom and this LBD ,and > her > > > other health problems, he is really gonna get it when I get > there! > > I > > > miss him so much at times. > > > As for problems that pile up on you (everyday ones and > > > otherwise), you have to find something to relieve some of the > > > stress. If not, you will end up sick as well. You need to take > > care > > > of yourself if you want to take care of someone else. I know how > > > tempting it is to go back to bed after the kids go to school and > > so > > > forth, been there, done that. It was called severe clinical > > > depression. So be careful, take care of yourself, and know that > we > > > all have problems ready to take us over if we let them. They > just > > > come in different forms. And so do the everyday bleesings that > are > > > sent our way! > > > Hugs and please take care, > > > Beth L. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2003 Report Share Posted November 7, 2003 Hi , Thanks for reassuring me that I am not being overly sensitive to the little " jabs " this guy makes at my Dad. He doesnt have to " pretend " to be nice for my sake...if he doesnt like my Dad, that's fine, but he can quit saying stuff! He's gonna get his though...one time when the Lion's are doing an affair such as a dinner or wedding I am going to report that he and his wife drink behind the bar. That'll fix him! -Coyote PS....my daughter's rat is fake!! How cool is that? > > > >> > Hi All, > > > >> > > > > >> > I was reading the posts when I noticed something flash past > > me - > > > >a > > > >> mouse! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH. I am terrified of the > darned > > > >> things. I have three cats and two dogs who seem to be happy > to > > > >> share their food with this mouse - not a one lifted an eyelid! > > > >Any > > > >> suggestions on how to get rid of this thing? I won't have any > > > >peace > > > >> of mind as long as I know this mouse is in my home. > > > >> > Courage > > > >> > > > > >> > Please follow this link to learn more about Lewy Body > Dementia > > > >> > http://www.lewybodydisease.org > > > >> > > > > >> > > > > >> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2003 Report Share Posted November 7, 2003 Please tell me that's a gerbil! Courage Coyote >Hi Coyote > >Was just looking at your pics. Your Dad looks so proud and handsome in the picture with him wearing the Lions tie. Just makes what that b# & !#^# member said so much more sad. > >Is that a rat your daughter is holding? Looks like a well-nourished one. > > > > > Courage Re: Jumping out of my chair > > > On subject of mice, check out my daughter's halloween pic in my > album! > > > > >> > Hi All, > > > >> > > > > >> > I was reading the posts when I noticed something flash past > > me - > > > >a > > > >> mouse! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH. I am terrified of the > darned > > > >> things. I have three cats and two dogs who seem to be happy > to > > > >> share their food with this mouse - not a one lifted an eyelid! > > > >Any > > > >> suggestions on how to get rid of this thing? I won't have any > > > >peace > > > >> of mind as long as I know this mouse is in my home. > > > >> > Courage > > > >> > > > > >> > Please follow this link to learn more about Lewy Body > Dementia > > > >> > http://www.lewybodydisease.org > > > >> > > > > >> > > > > >> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 29, 2004 Report Share Posted January 29, 2004 Good for you. I'm glad you're getting out even if it is to get Endear to her chemo treatments. Let me know how she does whenever you get a minute. Donna will be thrilled that you are doing something. I think she's right! It seems like a huge effort but once you get up and around you may not be able to stop and think which is a good thing when faced with depression. Still thinking and hoping for you, Abby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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