Guest guest Posted December 29, 2002 Report Share Posted December 29, 2002 Okay ...attitude adjustment! her mess is her mess...you didn't make it and you don't need to clean it up...boundaries! isn't this what you say to kids???? Ilene hnjstaff@... wrote: > I think (I still trying to figure it out myself) that I am afraid that > everything she says will come true. > > She will be all alone. > This will come back to haunt me some day with my kids. > She will die and I will miss her. > > I was thinking the other day. She lives in all that filth. If a news > station got ahold of it, they would say that we kids should have been > there for her. We were there in the beginning, but what can we do > now. She doesn't want our input. > > > Jules > > > Jules, are you afraid she'll cut you out of her life? would that be so > awful? Most of us that don't talk to our nadas have gotten a lot of > growth and peace during the silent years! Go back and work on your > boundaries and eventually you'll get there...as you said you've made > progress in other areas. It takes time to change all our hardwiring > out > for new improved stuff! > Ilene > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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