Re: Abby, Courage, Virginia-Ibiza, Newbies Re: advice needed

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Hi Josie, it is great to see your name. I wish you well and a very happy

holiday with no worries.

Kath

Abby, Courage, Virginia-Ibiza, Newbies Re: advice

needed

> Dear Abby:

>

> I have been " lurking " . I am invoved with some personal things I must take

> care of and don't have time to write to all, as I would like. It takes so

much

> of my time.

>

> I have been monitoring your problems with your dad. You are doing such a

> great job of researching and being proactive for him. Your desicion has

to be

> your gut feeling, whatever feels wrong, don't do it. You will get a lot

of

> necessary information when you meet with the DR, then do your best and go

with it.

>

> I really appreciate your note " missing Josie " . It is very touching. I

miss

> you all as well, but it also takes an emotional toll that I needed to

address

> and remedy. The good thing is, my daughter came for Thanksgiving,

was

> here four days. She is coming back in a week for Christmas. I got the

spirit

> of Christmas for the first time since my aunt died five years ago (I

think,

> I've never been able to keep track of how long ago she died). It is

extrange,

> since my Dad will not be here. I guess life goes on at its own pace. I

feel

> very good about it, though, my period of mourning has ended, mainly

because I

> have to live my life fully for my daughters.

>

> Courage, I felt bad about your allopecia, it is temporary and due to

tension,

> so you know what to do! Go out for drinks at least once a week and try to

> relax the rest of the time. You are so beautiful any way, you will still

look

> gorgeous.

>

> Virginia, you asked for the stages, the post is # 18110. You are a

wonderful

> wife and your husband is a very lucky man to have you. I understand you

want

> to be with him as long as you can, my mother did the same thing. Take

care

> of your self as well. I wish I could help you more.

>

> All the Newbies:

>

> Welcome and I am sorry you are here. You will find great support in this

> site, it becomes your other friend, always there. I will come back when I

take

> care of other obligations and try to addres everyone individually. I pray

for

> everyone of you, new or old friends, and share in your pains and triumphs

> daily. Keep posting and keep well. God bless you all,

>

> Josie

>

>

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