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Hey Everybody,

I'm looking for some advice from you all. Like you, I too suffer the hell we

all know as pssd. And while I'm hopeful that a cure (or cures) will be

discovered soon, for the moment (and it's been a long while) I'm pretty screwed

up. Very low libido. Erectile dysfunction (even when I take ed meds). The

list of symptoms is similar to many of you.

For a long while now I've been waiting for myself to get better, maybe not 100%,

but significantly better than where I am now. Waiting for myself to get better

before I start dating again for real. But that process has been slow. And I'm

getting tired of being alone.

That said, I'm hugely humiliated and frustrated by what's happened to me (and to

all of us), and I just can't seem to figure out how I'm going to sustain a

relationship with a woman with all this baggage. I've always been a very

physically active, outgoing guy, and I've never had any performance issues. I'm

not sure how to handle this new reality with a woman. But I want to try. I'm

sick of waiting.

What do you say? When you don't want to be physically intimate, or just don't

feel it, or simply cannot perform, what do you say, how does she react?

Physical intimacy is such a large part of a relationship - at least it used to

be for me - that I'm at a loss as to why a woman would stay with me now. Or

what I can do to make her happy.

Any and all advice (from men or women) would be incredibly appreciated.

Thanks guys.

-M