Guest guest Posted June 30, 2003 Report Share Posted June 30, 2003 Deara Jan: Thank you for this post! It was just what I needed at this time. When you said: " ohhhhh how I want to just reach out and show someone the turnaround they don't see instead of letting them see their way out showing them how to be dependent.... " You described what I was looking for to do The Work on. Thank you. Steve D. > Non judgementally doing facilitation is fascinating .... or getting > that as you facilitate you are doing the work just as the " client " is > doing the work. fabulous!!!!! > > as you enter the present with the person who is working a problem, you > watch yourself, your judgements, your controlling nature and whatever > else comes up for you during the facilitation process so that you can > look/work on that yourself.... > > ohhhhh how I want to just reach out and show someone the turnaround > they don't see instead of letting them see their way out showing them > how to be dependent.... > > When senses that you're about to have a " big bang " - feel your > pain, she becomes vacant and allows that to come through, welcomes it > to come through - without judgments like sympathy, etc.....that > consciousness is what makes being facilitated by her so wonderful... > > but at times, she defintitely has an agenda. she leads and directs > you to a certain area that she feels may give you the juice that you > need to see a clearer picture. > > when I did the work on my mother at the intensive, i was standing > there in front of a the whole group of people talking with a > microphone feeling a little awkward reminding her that I was the one > who had been kept in a cage (we'd talked on a teleconference months > ago). said when you facilitate someone who was kept in a cage > as a little girl, you would go slowly through the questions and take > your time getting to the turn arounds. > > she then asked me for the turnarounds and I took the most recent > statement and turned it around....Put my mom in a cage!!!! > > Without missing a beat and over the audience laughter, said as a > facilitator - do you see how the ego holds to what it needs to be > right? THAT was a great moment for me....that ego..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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