RE: Re: what to do - Zenbear

[Guest guest]

> wrote:

> Its funny how tears or laughter always seem to arise when we undo a

> deeply held story. I just love that you went deep within yourself and

> found your own freedom.

I'm confused at what I notice, which is that I feel very weepy after doing

this work. I went to give P a hug, and afterwards, my heart felt so full of

emotion in a powerful, almost painful way. I cried for a while by myself,

and then I went back and asked P to hold and comfort me for a minute, which

he did even though he had no idea what was going on with me. I cried some

more, and then was calmer.

To me, it feels like there's too much love inside with nowhere to go, or no

one to understand it and take it in. P has told me when I've expressed it

towards him, that he doesn't feel loved, he feels loved " at " in an

unpleasant sense. I wish I knew how to give it to myself. It always feels

hollow when I try.

I welcome others' thoughts or experiences.

Love,

Bev

[Guest guest]

Bev

Have you heard of the book, " The Five Love Languages? " The idea behind

this book is that we all have learned different primary ways of

receiving love (touch, listening, gifts, fixing, etc.) We tend to give

love in the way we like to receive it.

In my experience this has been true. I have had people offer love to me

in the most wonderful ways, and I didn't receive it. They were offering

it in the way they knew how, not in the way I liked.

So, how does P like to receive love? How do you like to offer it?

Love

Steve

RE: Re: what to do - Zenbear

> wrote:

> Its funny how tears or laughter always seem to arise when we undo a

>deeply held story. I just love that you went deep within yourself and

>found your own freedom.

I'm confused at what I notice, which is that I feel very weepy after

doing this work. I went to give P a hug, and afterwards, my heart felt

so full of emotion in a powerful, almost painful way. I cried for a

while by myself, and then I went back and asked P to hold and comfort me

for a minute, which he did even though he had no idea what was going on

with me. I cried some more, and then was calmer. To me, it feels like

there's too much love inside with nowhere to go, or no one to understand

it and take it in. P has told me when I've expressed it towards him,

that he doesn't feel loved, he feels loved " at " in an unpleasant sense.

I wish I knew how to give it to myself. It always feels hollow when I

try. I welcome others' thoughts or experiences.

Love,

Bev

[Guest guest]

wrote:

> What a silly thought! How could anyone have too much love? How could

> love not know where to go? May I suggest that you go deep inside and

> see how funny this all is.

It is pretty silly sounding.

Love,

Bev