How I know the Stalker..

[Guest guest]

Jace,

She--yes she found me through a website for our local SPCA. She started

emailing me and attached herself to me.

In the beginning I thought she was okay but when she started showing up

uninvited at my door and emails to me I just couldn't handle it.

She is narcisstic. Whatever anyone has, she has to have something better.

I am not like that. I am grateful for a crumb on my table. She followed me

from ie lists all over Yahoo. I have a ie, Cairn and Westie.

And she doesn't even or ever had owned a ish Terrier.

It was eerie. She would pop up all of a sudden.

Then she told me a while back she has an assortment of wigs and uses them

when she drives by people's homes so they can't notice her.

She lives about 25 miles away and that is even too close.

Her main goal in life was to hurt me. She publicly made fun of my panic

disorder thinking it was a joke. It's not funny.

So that is how I know her. I wish I never met her.

--thanks for all your help.

Message: 4

Date: Wed, 25 Jan 2006 09:00:34 -0800

Subject: Re: Need help and Advice

Hi, -

Is your only available contact with her through e-mail? Or do you have

a physical address or know anyone who might know her address? If you

do, you have the option to take legal actions against her. If, however,

the stalking is only online, then my recommendation, and it may be

unpleasant, is to be sure to keep all of her e-mails as evidence in case

legal action can be pursued. You don't need to print them out, just

save them in a separate folder from your email inbox. There is a way

for authorities to trace the exact computer these messages are coming

from and then she can be dealt with directly. I've never had to deal

with an online stalker, but twice I've had to deal with phone stalkers

and it wasn't pleasant but I got them to stop. One was serious, the

other was just a teenager goofing around, but he stopped as well.

Would you mind filling us in on how she knows you, and do you have any

idea why she keeps stalking you?

Jace

& ish Clan

~To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.~

.... Viscott

[Guest guest]

I have been reading your saga and my heart goes out to you for all that she is

putting you through.

Will your local police assist you at all, if nothing else for you to get a

protection order against her.

The groups that a part of yahoo ... can you write yahoo and tell them what is

going on. At times they are willing to ban specific email addresses for people

who are harassing.

I am going to ask a friend who is in law enforcement if he can suggest anything

for you to get rid of her.

Pam