Guest guest Posted August 19, 2003 Report Share Posted August 19, 2003 Kath Your email to me was heartwarming. I appreciate your words, and heartfelt sentiment. Any time you want to email me personally, please do. I will not be in the group, but will still be available to any and all that want to keep in touch. Take Care - Hugs- Sandie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 15, 2003 Report Share Posted September 15, 2003 Hi Kath, How are you? It's been ages since I've heard from you. When you've got time, please posts us an update. Take care, Courage Re: Re: Where are ya from? >I am also from Toronto. > >Kath > Where are ya from? >> > >> > >> > >I keep noticing how people on the site are finding people in their >> > >own areas...I was just wondering if there was anyone out there >> from >> > >near MY area??? Cayuga/Hagersville Ontario Canada. (40 mins S. of >> > >Hamilton). Thought maybe others might like to post where they are >> > >from in the hopes of connecting with someone nearby? >> > >Hugs, Coyote >> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2003 Report Share Posted September 16, 2003 Dear SEPJ: Your'e right! I have to get my act together. My poor little one must be worried. Thanks for giving me a perspective on this. Love, Josie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2003 Report Share Posted September 16, 2003 Based on my own experience, the death of my Father was enough to disable me for about 3 months. As well, some years ago when my youngest left to go away to college it had a similar effect. You got a double whammy! Go get a massage, take a walk, love yourself, etc etc. It'll pass and you'll be up and running in no time. SEPJ > Hi Ladies: > > I don't have a lot of time now, things caught up with me!!! > > I wanted to know if what is happening to me is that my oldest one finally > moved to college. Chicago, no less. Is it the death of my father? > > I really feel disorganized! > > Josie > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2003 Report Share Posted September 16, 2003 Josie, i know where your coming from. I'm having some REALLY BAD days at the moment. I tried to go shopping and was rooted to the spot in one of the aisles, all i can see is my granda's last minutes replaying in my head and i've gotten to the point were i'm so fed up crying. I end up with a splitting headache. The strange thing is i know why i'm like this......for me reality hasn't bitten yet, i simply can't believe he's gone. He travelled a long road and i always knew what the outcome would be but it's like the final week came and then went far to quickly...do you know what i mean???. I know this is part of the grieving process but i just want it to pass and let me move onto the next... Phew..i'm so glad i finally said all that, even if it was via e-mail at least i'm telling someone how i feel. Thanks for listening. .x Re: Kath Hi Ladies: I don't have a lot of time now, things caught up with me!!! I wanted to know if what is happening to me is that my oldest one finally moved to college. Chicago, no less. Is it the death of my father? I really feel disorganized! Josie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2003 Report Share Posted September 16, 2003 I do know what you are feeling. I went to see my father in Hospital the day before he died, this was the first time I'd seen him for 2 weeks, and he looked like skin and bone and his skin was so fragile that I couldnt touch him. He was barely conscious, and at one point he struggeld to luift himself off the pillow, and he stared at me with these big black eyes. He died the next morning after he had been served breakfast, and he was alone, which I don't think was coincidental. He did not have LBD, but suffered from 40 years of diabetes. Just writing about this experince now brought back those memories. The reason I write is that I took a long time to come to terms with his death, and the grieving, I thought, was over some time ago, seems it's not. Anyway, I keep getting sidetracked, but I found and still find, talking about his passing and the manner of it, cathartic. It really helped me. All the best to you. Re: Kath Hi Ladies: I don't have a lot of time now, things caught up with me!!! I wanted to know if what is happening to me is that my oldest one finally moved to college. Chicago, no less. Is it the death of my father? I really feel disorganized! Josie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 16, 2003 Report Share Posted September 16, 2003 That's what started the shoe hunt. She had on two different lace up shoes and I was searching for the velcro blue ones (newer and easier for her to do up). where do you live now? Kath Where are ya from? > >> >> > > >> >> > > >> >> > >I keep noticing how people on the site are finding people in their > >> >> > >own areas...I was just wondering if there was anyone out there > >> >> from > >> >> > >near MY area??? Cayuga/Hagersville Ontario Canada. (40 mins S. of > >> >> > >Hamilton). Thought maybe others might like to post where they are > >> >> > >from in the hopes of connecting with someone nearby? > >> >> > >Hugs, Coyote > >> >> > > > >> >> > > > >> >> > > > >> >> > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 17, 2003 Report Share Posted September 17, 2003 Josie, I am feeling for you. I couldn't agree more with Sepj. You have gotten a double whammy. Both you and your daughter will being going through a period of adjustment and both of you will find good and bad in the separation. I so admire that you are giving your daughter the opportunity to become an adult - even if that means being away from you. You should be very proud of yourself. Courage Re: Kath >Hi Ladies: > >I don't have a lot of time now, things caught up with me!!! > >I wanted to know if what is happening to me is that my oldest one finally >moved to college. Chicago, no less. Is it the death of my father? > >I really feel disorganized! > >Josie > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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