- I meant several times to post by sorrow at your loss of you son

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Then my caregiving would call and I didnt get it done. We have

friends who have lost teenage children and as I said to one of them I

lost a baby at three days - (now 40 years ago last month) I can't

imagine how hard it must be to lose an older child. There hasn't

been a year yet and many days in between I don't think of and

mourn his loss. As those who've been here longer know I also lost my

husband of 17 years when I was 35, my mother died in my car, among

some of my worst experiences. I've always prayed afor the strength

and managed to keep going. My thoughts are with you and hopefully we

will be able to help. If you just need to vent or cry with a friend,

we're still here. My friend told me the Lord doesn't give you more

that you can handle. I've heard it many times since but she told me

that even before my husband died. I agree with her an many who

sometimes wonder if he's overestimated my ability.

Bless you in your days of moving on eventually the good memories and

the loss will both be in your life not just the loss.

Sandy (OH)