Winner's Circle Network with Lou Tice - Personal Growth & Relationships

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Winner's Circle Network with Lou Tice - " Personal Growth & Relationships "

If you are interested in pursuing personal growth, does this mean you are a

selfish person? Today, let's look at how personal growth affects

relationships.

There's no question about it. We have to have a caring relationship with

ourselves before we can expect others to do so. However, being interested in

personal growth doesn't mean you're selfish. Quite the contrary.

In his book, " The Psychology of Romantic Love, " iel wrote,

" The first affair we must consummate successfully is the love affair with

ourselves. Only then are we ready for other love relationships. "

You see, no matter how concerned we are about others, we are ultimately

responsible only for ourselves. If we feel inadequate and victimized, then

we have no power to offer another person security and strength.

Self-development means being the best you can be and giving the best you can

give. It means asking yourself, " If I were living with me, would I want to

stay around? " Then, you change what you need to change according to your

answer, without making a big deal about it.

You see, although there are tremendous personal benefits to

self-development, it is, perhaps, in your relationships with others that a

commitment to personal growth will bring you the most gratifying changes.

Lou Tice

The Pacific Institute

Blessings,

Charlene

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