Winner's Circle Network with Lou Tice - Find the Person For You

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Winner's Circle Network with Lou Tice - " Find the Person For You "

If you are single and looking for a long-term relationship or marriage but

are having trouble finding a partner or spouse, I have some suggestions for

you.

First, do you know specifically what kind of person you are looking for?

What qualities do you value in a mate, and how do you judge whether a person

has those qualities?

Do you have a clear picture of what your relationship with your partner will

be like, including how you will treat each other, how you will deal with

conflict, how your social life will look? You see, the clearer your values

are and the clearer your picture of the kind of person you are looking for,

the likelier it is that you will end up with what you want.

Do you have issues from your family of origin or other relationships that

might prevent you from enjoying this kind of happiness? Would some

counseling or group support help eliminate these obstacles?

Finally, do you live in a way that is consistent with what you want in a

relationship?

Because you know, in the end, it is far more important to be the right

person than it is to find the right person.

You can't attract anyone who is better or more successful or kinder than you

are comfortable with or believe in your heart of hearts you deserve. If you

work on your mental pictures and your growth as an individual first, you

will recognize and be ready for the right person when he or she comes along.

Lou Tice

The Pacific Institute

Blessings,

Charlene

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