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Thank you for your answer.

So sorry to read that you are as fatigued as we all seem to be.

I guess your question was " A way to handle it? " (the fatigue?)(I don't

have your post right in front of me!)This really isn't an " answer " ;just

a suggestion:

Okay...I just do what I like to do on " good " days;and leave some time

to do ONE thing for the spouse and house,that day.(I

mean,like,dust...vacuum,go food shopping,etc) SHE WORKS at an

emergency Veterinary hospital(Overnight Sunday 9A.M. to Monday

9A.M.;and then on Tuesday from 5PM to 11:30 P.M.);so It is difficult

for me to ask for help. But,what a lot of the " working " (outside the

home) spouses don't seem to understand is that going grocery

shopping,or vacuuming IS work TOO! ESPECIALLY for us. Some of us have

kids to deal with,also.-I have my furry and feathered kids. I take care

of them EVERY DAY......I guess my point is this: Do what you CAN on

your good days;BUT LEAVE SOME TIME FOR YOU!! Exercise;see a

movie;whatever! Then;You will still have bad days and tiredness,but you

will feel better spiritually!

Hope this helps you,...and everyone. Bram.