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Hi, .

Glad to read your intro. I feel the same way as you do about the

stewardship of the Earth and keeping it beautiful and clean for the

future children on the planet.

When I look out side my kitchen window as I prepare a meal, I wonder at

the beauty of our fragrant, lush spring. I thank God for making it so

wonderful. As I go out to do chores, I hear the sweet song of birds. I

listen to the comforting sound of our chickens clucking and the cows

softly calling to the spring calves. It is thrilling to hear and feel

the percussion of gentle horses running through the pasture. All this

finds me grateful to be alive.

Welcome.

Ercilia

christine edwards wrote:

> Hi Everybody,

> I'm going to give this intro thing a try! :0) My name is

> . I live in Cole County, MO. My husband, Kenny and

> I have 5 children, so far. I'm trying to remember everything I was

> suppossed to post...Anyway, we just try to live our lives as close to

> God as possible. We don't have any farm animals of our own, but we do

> have access to organic, free-range poultry and eggs, raw milk, butter,

> cheese, etc. & nbs p; We grow our own organic vegetables and I try to

> cook everything I can from scratch so I know what's in there! :0)

> Basically, we are just trying to live the best lives we can for

> ourselves and our children and try to do as little damage as possible

> for future generations. I am looking forward to getting to know some

> of you and sharing ideas, etc. Please let me know if I have forgotten

> anything or if you have any questions. This looks like a great group

> and I don't want to get " booted " for lack of information. LOL

> Blessings to All,

>

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  • 4 years later...

Oh my ... your son sounds identical to mine!

My son switched last year to a small high school (150 per grade) and has an

amazing counselor.  He also has amazing teachers.  He has the option to retake

any test and to redo any assignment/paper.  He has an open pass to see his

counselor at any time -- or just to go to her office and sit by himself if he

needs a break.  At this smaller school, I have found the teachers to go above

and beyond ... probably because they are not so overwhelmed with the number of

students.  He is thriving and his stress level is so much better.

I have no real advice for you, but wanted to say hello and welcome.

in WA

Subject: Intro to group

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Date: Thursday, January 27, 2011, 11:31 PM

 

Hi there. I'm new to the group. My son is almost 11, has been diagnosed with

OCD since he was 9. He was diagnosed with generalized anxiety when he was 4. He

also developed separation anxiety last summer. He was placed on zoloft on age 10

b/c the anxiety and obsessions were triggering depression. He also has some

secondary problems, with inattention. We are currently screening for a new CBT

therapist.

His OCD and depression are often triggered by the stress of school. I

conference quite a bit with school staff, but it always takes awhile for

teachers to understand how to best help him. Plus, state testing and ongoing

school demands tend to overwhelm him, even with supports. He will be attending

a smaller school in the Fall.

His rituals are not overwhelming. His major problem is obsessions. He's

constantly thinking and overanalyzing. His stamina is low at times b/c his

anxiety runs him ragged, which leaves him unable to complete some school tasks.

Lately, he's been troubled by the thought that maybe he CAN complete his work

and is possibly just making excuses. This obsession has been overwhelming him

and driving him to tears. We try to talk it through with some of the basic CBT

techniques that he's learned in therapy, but he needs more work. This is why he

ends up becoming depressed. We just increased his zoloft dosage.

I've read quite a bit about OCD and anxiety over the years, but right now my son

needs a systematic approach with clearly structured and prioritized goals from a

therapist. I'm not sure what I can do for him in the meantime. I meet with a new

therapist next week for intake. It's difficult finding someone qualified who

takes our insurance and is within reasonable travel distance. I'm concerned that

my son could be nearing a crisis point if something doesn't let up soon.

Fay

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Yep, my son has a long history of shut down. He has a behavior plan to

address this, but a lot depends on interpretation and finesse from the

teacher. HW was taking too long, so I sent a note after New Year that we

were modifying and cutting back as needed.

How

has the school been about getting the accomodations? Our school tries

to work with us, but they don't understand anxiety well enough and I

often feel like I'm working against the tide.

I got to the point this year where enough was enough and I was no longer

asking for accomodations, I was informing and implementing.

Fay

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> P.S. Meant to add that there were times just couldn't do homework

> either so we didn't. It was just beyond him occasionally when OCD was giving

> him a " really bad night. " I called it " shutting down. " Like he was

> overwhelmed, just not capable. One reason I got the accommodation for the

> late work! The other reasons being that his and I spending 2-3 hours doing

> it was long enough and we couldn't always get through it all, and some

> nights I had less time to help him, etc.

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> > The difficult part is that sometimes my son still can't get the work

> done,

> > even with my help. Depends how run down and overwhelmed he's feeling. He

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