sondra

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Again I must say that you are a truely remarkable person Sondra....you hit every

point on the head! You really do help me on some level to see what my Destiney

might be feeling. I just wanted to say thank you for who you are....you are a

special person.

michelle

I especially

> would like to thank Sondra for all of her insight that she has shared

with

> us....you are truely a remarkable person.

thank you for these words to me this day. it maked my day. I

to be to have had a confusing week and so trying to understand a new

concept exposed to me and so was stuck and now reading here again.

Sondra

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Sondra, I'm glad you're going to the ER. Maybe you have a little

infection from your surgery. Better to go to the hospital and get

checked. Please let us know what happens and I hope you feel better

very quickly.

Debi

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Sondra please let us know what happens, we are very concerned.

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Sondra, I am so sorry that you are feeling so bad. I will be praying that you

heal quickly.

Carol

sondra wrote:

I to be of scard as not feeling well and not to be of bad to say of

this but am of blddeing much passing many clots adn soaking self not

sure what is of wrong but much sick all this week and fetl beter this

day only t turn rapidly to the oppiste in just af ew hours. get of

migraine , throat is of strange. I to never did of this on monthly ever

in teh wole life of me and this week also be to ahd of very thick mucus

plug like things pass in my bowels neber in life to ahd of that. the

body of me is of hurting,. yet shoudl be to ahve known sdome thing wass

of wrong because didnot sleep at all until 5 AM this mornign foll

asleep for a few hours with use of sleepaid. I to be of feared much so

and wanted to have of words to someone but lack any to be of real

firend in life to be to calland say help too so did be to call of hte

husband nad he of leaving of work to come to get of me to take of me to

ER room. I to know somethings is of terribly wrong but lack what it is

ot be for me and want it to stop and get of self back to health ways

g=for me.

Sondra

[Guest guest]

Sondra,

You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated on how you are

doing!

sondra wrote:

I to be of scard as not feeling well and not to be of bad to say of

this but am of blddeing much passing many clots adn soaking self not

sure what is of wrong but much sick all this week and fetl beter this

day only t turn rapidly to the oppiste in just af ew hours. get of

migraine , throat is of strange. I to never did of this on monthly ever

in teh wole life of me and this week also be to ahd of very thick mucus

plug like things pass in my bowels neber in life to ahd of that. the

body of me is of hurting,. yet shoudl be to ahve known sdome thing wass

of wrong because didnot sleep at all until 5 AM this mornign foll

asleep for a few hours with use of sleepaid. I to be of feared much so

and wanted to have of words to someone but lack any to be of real

firend in life to be to calland say help too so did be to call of hte

husband nad he of leaving of work to come to get of me to take of me to

ER room. I to know somethings is of terribly wrong but lack what it is

ot be for me and want it to stop and get of self back to health ways

g=for me.

Sondra

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I to went to the ER but they did not find or understand the causes of

the heavy bleeds or other things. I to went through 16 pads in 3 hours

so that is of way too much, they to sayed the antibiotic I to be of

taken can hide things in some ways of knowing whats elsemight be of

going on but by 10:30-11 bleeds slowed way down. It was as if had a

whole 5 day monthly all in 3-4 hours. It caused me to get very

internally quite and not able to attend as was more to " day dream "

states and just could not process and or connect well to words around

me.

I to give of the husband good credit to melast night as one nurse was

not in the knowing and was being too fast and harsh with me and it was

of cauaing me more stress and such. so whe I to had to go with the

other person for urine , he to explained of the autism, to the other

nurse who then replied she also had of a son with autism. She was still

was of clueless in the understand of processing but was much better at

being patient and calm.

When my anxiety and fear is of high I to shake so much so people think

I to be fo freezing and it does match the way people are when freezing

with the funny chattering of the lips and shaking so much so. I to

tried to explain was not cold int he sense of being one who is of clod

but the fears and anxiety in me respond this way. when I to feel have

to do good job for medical reasons but inside of me my fear is of very

intese and want to bolt away.

I to ahd to get of blood out of the arm, and pelvic but he to say the

things all look well so he really cant explain of it except that my

severe insomina lately and the surgery and tehn bladder and kideny

infection could have possibly interfered with my normal ways for

monthly but he can not be of for sure but is of assuming of this to me.

I to ahve to go to my medical doctor soon to make a new appointment.

Today feel much like weights are tied to my ankles and wrist and feel

so weghted down and struggling to walk. I to still ahve of a bad

headache to this.

I to did rest fairly sound though once got of home so did sleep from 3-

7 AM/ 4 hours is of good compared to 4 hours of very broken sleep.

I to need to take of my missy off to school this day as when ever

somethings happens tome she builds in fear and anxiety of me so needs

memore to help of her. My isaiah is of going to cedar point for senior

day. today is really hims last offical day of school before to graduate

and this whole thinking brings me to tears off and on more on than off

andlack why this is making me so deeply sad within me. I to be so mixed

up and feel stupid because my brain is to be of suppose to feel happy

and I to feel opposite. I to be just a mixed up person in expressing

self.

Sondra

[Guest guest]

I to went to the ER but they did not find or understand the causes of

the heavy bleeds or other things. I to went through 16 pads in 3 hours

so that is of way too much, they to sayed the antibiotic I to be of

taken can hide things in some ways of knowing whats elsemight be of

going on but by 10:30-11 bleeds slowed way down. It was as if had a

whole 5 day monthly all in 3-4 hours. It caused me to get very

internally quite and not able to attend as was more to " day dream "

states and just could not process and or connect well to words around

me.

I to give of the husband good credit to melast night as one nurse was

not in the knowing and was being too fast and harsh with me and it was

of cauaing me more stress and such. so whe I to had to go with the

other person for urine , he to explained of the autism, to the other

nurse who then replied she also had of a son with autism. She was still

was of clueless in the understand of processing but was much better at

being patient and calm.

When my anxiety and fear is of high I to shake so much so people think

I to be fo freezing and it does match the way people are when freezing

with the funny chattering of the lips and shaking so much so. I to

tried to explain was not cold int he sense of being one who is of clod

but the fears and anxiety in me respond this way. when I to feel have

to do good job for medical reasons but inside of me my fear is of very

intese and want to bolt away.

I to ahd to get of blood out of the arm, and pelvic but he to say the

things all look well so he really cant explain of it except that my

severe insomina lately and the surgery and tehn bladder and kideny

infection could have possibly interfered with my normal ways for

monthly but he can not be of for sure but is of assuming of this to me.

I to ahve to go to my medical doctor soon to make a new appointment.

Today feel much like weights are tied to my ankles and wrist and feel

so weghted down and struggling to walk. I to still ahve of a bad

headache to this.

I to did rest fairly sound though once got of home so did sleep from 3-

7 AM/ 4 hours is of good compared to 4 hours of very broken sleep.

I to need to take of my missy off to school this day as when ever

somethings happens tome she builds in fear and anxiety of me so needs

memore to help of her. My isaiah is of going to cedar point for senior

day. today is really hims last offical day of school before to graduate

and this whole thinking brings me to tears off and on more on than off

andlack why this is making me so deeply sad within me. I to be so mixed

up and feel stupid because my brain is to be of suppose to feel happy

and I to feel opposite. I to be just a mixed up person in expressing

self.

Sondra

[Guest guest]

Sondra,

I hope you are over whatever caused you so much trouble last night. Sounds

like after that you have every right to be dragged down and tired. Try if

you can to get some rest!

And, you are not alone in that mixed up feelings thing! I often cry at

times you think you should be happy. ESPECIALLY if it is during a monthly,

and if your monthly was that bad, maybe your hormones are all over the place

too. Combined with lack of sleep....I think your mixed emotions are

perfectly normal right about now!!

Hope you feel better, get some rest!! Let your bunnies make a mess and

worry about that tomorrow

>

>Reply-To: Autism_in_Girls

>To: Autism_in_Girls

>Subject: Re: sondra

>Date: Fri, 25 May 2007 12:41:41 -0000

>

>I to went to the ER but they did not find or understand the causes of

>the heavy bleeds or other things. I to went through 16 pads in 3 hours

>so that is of way too much, they to sayed the antibiotic I to be of

>taken can hide things in some ways of knowing whats elsemight be of

>going on but by 10:30-11 bleeds slowed way down. It was as if had a

>whole 5 day monthly all in 3-4 hours. It caused me to get very

>internally quite and not able to attend as was more to " day dream "

>states and just could not process and or connect well to words around

>me.

>

>I to give of the husband good credit to melast night as one nurse was

>not in the knowing and was being too fast and harsh with me and it was

>of cauaing me more stress and such. so whe I to had to go with the

>other person for urine , he to explained of the autism, to the other

>nurse who then replied she also had of a son with autism. She was still

>was of clueless in the understand of processing but was much better at

>being patient and calm.

>

>When my anxiety and fear is of high I to shake so much so people think

>I to be fo freezing and it does match the way people are when freezing

>with the funny chattering of the lips and shaking so much so. I to

>tried to explain was not cold int he sense of being one who is of clod

>but the fears and anxiety in me respond this way. when I to feel have

>to do good job for medical reasons but inside of me my fear is of very

>intese and want to bolt away.

>

>I to ahd to get of blood out of the arm, and pelvic but he to say the

>things all look well so he really cant explain of it except that my

>severe insomina lately and the surgery and tehn bladder and kideny

>infection could have possibly interfered with my normal ways for

>monthly but he can not be of for sure but is of assuming of this to me.

>I to ahve to go to my medical doctor soon to make a new appointment.

>

>Today feel much like weights are tied to my ankles and wrist and feel

>so weghted down and struggling to walk. I to still ahve of a bad

>headache to this.

>

>I to did rest fairly sound though once got of home so did sleep from 3-

>7 AM/ 4 hours is of good compared to 4 hours of very broken sleep.

>

>I to need to take of my missy off to school this day as when ever

>somethings happens tome she builds in fear and anxiety of me so needs

>memore to help of her. My isaiah is of going to cedar point for senior

>day. today is really hims last offical day of school before to graduate

>and this whole thinking brings me to tears off and on more on than off

>andlack why this is making me so deeply sad within me. I to be so mixed

>up and feel stupid because my brain is to be of suppose to feel happy

>and I to feel opposite. I to be just a mixed up person in expressing

>self.

>Sondra

>

>

>

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Sondra, it's very normal for moms to be happy and sad when their kids

graduate. It think it's such a profoundly proud moment for moms and

dads that the intense emotions make us have to cry to get it out.

I'm glad you aren't bleeding like you were. They probably checked your

white blood cell count to see if you were showing an internal

infection, but because of the antibiotics your blood wouldn't really

show it. If you keep having problems, ask them to do an ultrasound to

see if they see anything on the inside. Are your bowel movements okay now?

Debi

[Guest guest]

Sondra, it's very normal for moms to be happy and sad when their kids

graduate. It think it's such a profoundly proud moment for moms and

dads that the intense emotions make us have to cry to get it out.

I'm glad you aren't bleeding like you were. They probably checked your

white blood cell count to see if you were showing an internal

infection, but because of the antibiotics your blood wouldn't really

show it. If you keep having problems, ask them to do an ultrasound to

see if they see anything on the inside. Are your bowel movements okay now?

Debi

[Guest guest]

I to got into today to see of my regular medical doctor who shared

the urine culture was full of white blood cells at a high level but

the culture was negative for bladder and kideny infections, she did

of soem exames as she is of very familar with me and she found that

the gall bladder areas seem to be of greatly affected. roday she is

of sending me to go labs on Lupus and a few other disorders as well.

I to still not be of well and cant find why or what is of causing the

ill and not right felin in me. I to be to wish could see " house " the

doctor on TV. He would be of to find what is of causing me great

upset and distress. it is of ever so hard to communicate ill to

others when asked of those questions by doctors it is of not a

language I to understand well nor can I to communicate it effectively

or well. I to get easily overloaded by some who speak in rapid shifts

and reasking the same questions only later to recite back to me the

wrong words I to not say. I to feel I to strugge hard enough to pauy

attention and focus to spoken words of others but add the cultureal

barrier and that impacts megreatly. today a new nurse in training

from Asia who speaks very broken english to me was of dioing this and

wanted to tell her to please have no more words to me or to stop but

felt it would be of rude and hurt of her feelings so stayed of

internally agiated at self for not being able to work in that

situation effectivbely/ sondra

[Guest guest]

I to got into today to see of my regular medical doctor who shared

the urine culture was full of white blood cells at a high level but

the culture was negative for bladder and kideny infections, she did

of soem exames as she is of very familar with me and she found that

the gall bladder areas seem to be of greatly affected. roday she is

of sending me to go labs on Lupus and a few other disorders as well.

I to still not be of well and cant find why or what is of causing the

ill and not right felin in me. I to be to wish could see " house " the

doctor on TV. He would be of to find what is of causing me great

upset and distress. it is of ever so hard to communicate ill to

others when asked of those questions by doctors it is of not a

language I to understand well nor can I to communicate it effectively

or well. I to get easily overloaded by some who speak in rapid shifts

and reasking the same questions only later to recite back to me the

wrong words I to not say. I to feel I to strugge hard enough to pauy

attention and focus to spoken words of others but add the cultureal

barrier and that impacts megreatly. today a new nurse in training

from Asia who speaks very broken english to me was of dioing this and

wanted to tell her to please have no more words to me or to stop but

felt it would be of rude and hurt of her feelings so stayed of

internally agiated at self for not being able to work in that

situation effectivbely/ sondra

[Guest guest]

That sounds so frustrating. Good thing you have a good family doctor that

knows you and understands. Hopefully she can sort all this out for you.

Good luck, hope you feel better soon.

>

>Reply-To: Autism_in_Girls

>To: Autism_in_Girls

>Subject: Re: sondra

>Date: Fri, 25 May 2007 16:47:07 -0000

>

>I to got into today to see of my regular medical doctor who shared

>the urine culture was full of white blood cells at a high level but

>the culture was negative for bladder and kideny infections, she did

>of soem exames as she is of very familar with me and she found that

>the gall bladder areas seem to be of greatly affected. roday she is

>of sending me to go labs on Lupus and a few other disorders as well.

>I to still not be of well and cant find why or what is of causing the

>ill and not right felin in me. I to be to wish could see " house " the

>doctor on TV. He would be of to find what is of causing me great

>upset and distress. it is of ever so hard to communicate ill to

>others when asked of those questions by doctors it is of not a

>language I to understand well nor can I to communicate it effectively

>or well. I to get easily overloaded by some who speak in rapid shifts

>and reasking the same questions only later to recite back to me the

>wrong words I to not say. I to feel I to strugge hard enough to pauy

>attention and focus to spoken words of others but add the cultureal

>barrier and that impacts megreatly. today a new nurse in training

>from Asia who speaks very broken english to me was of dioing this and

>wanted to tell her to please have no more words to me or to stop but

>felt it would be of rude and hurt of her feelings so stayed of

>internally agiated at self for not being able to work in that

>situation effectivbely/ sondra

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

That sounds so frustrating. Good thing you have a good family doctor that

knows you and understands. Hopefully she can sort all this out for you.

Good luck, hope you feel better soon.

>

>Reply-To: Autism_in_Girls

>To: Autism_in_Girls

>Subject: Re: sondra

>Date: Fri, 25 May 2007 16:47:07 -0000

>

>I to got into today to see of my regular medical doctor who shared

>the urine culture was full of white blood cells at a high level but

>the culture was negative for bladder and kideny infections, she did

>of soem exames as she is of very familar with me and she found that

>the gall bladder areas seem to be of greatly affected. roday she is

>of sending me to go labs on Lupus and a few other disorders as well.

>I to still not be of well and cant find why or what is of causing the

>ill and not right felin in me. I to be to wish could see " house " the

>doctor on TV. He would be of to find what is of causing me great

>upset and distress. it is of ever so hard to communicate ill to

>others when asked of those questions by doctors it is of not a

>language I to understand well nor can I to communicate it effectively

>or well. I to get easily overloaded by some who speak in rapid shifts

>and reasking the same questions only later to recite back to me the

>wrong words I to not say. I to feel I to strugge hard enough to pauy

>attention and focus to spoken words of others but add the cultureal

>barrier and that impacts megreatly. today a new nurse in training

>from Asia who speaks very broken english to me was of dioing this and

>wanted to tell her to please have no more words to me or to stop but

>felt it would be of rude and hurt of her feelings so stayed of

>internally agiated at self for not being able to work in that

>situation effectivbely/ sondra

>

>

>

>

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Hi Sondra,

Sorry you are not feeling well right now. As far as dealing with medical

staff in unknown situations, maybe you can get the doctor to write a note

for you to give to medical staff & also to have in your chart in the

hospital explaining that you have autism. Have your dr specify : to please

speak clearly, give you time to process what was said, explain the

particular issues you have trouble dealing with. You might give your dr

some ideas of what specifically you have trouble with & she can write it

down in her own words; it would carry weight having an MD's signature.

This way you won't have to explain yourself when you are feeling ill &

stressed out " just " from being ill. You don't need the added stress of

trying to communicate when you are being bombarded & overloaded dealing with

the medical staff.

With a note that you carry with you & you can give it when you have trouble

dealing with people.

Marie

>

> I to got into today to see of my regular medical doctor who shared

> the urine culture was full of white blood cells at a high level but

> the culture was negative for bladder and kideny infections, she did

> of soem exames as she is of very familar with me and she found that

> the gall bladder areas seem to be of greatly affected. roday she is

> of sending me to go labs on Lupus and a few other disorders as well.

> I to still not be of well and cant find why or what is of causing the

> ill and not right felin in me. I to be to wish could see " house " the

> doctor on TV. He would be of to find what is of causing me great

> upset and distress. it is of ever so hard to communicate ill to

> others when asked of those questions by doctors it is of not a

> language I to understand well nor can I to communicate it effectively

> or well. I to get easily overloaded by some who speak in rapid shifts

> and reasking the same questions only later to recite back to me the

> wrong words I to not say. I to feel I to strugge hard enough to pauy

> attention and focus to spoken words of others but add the cultureal

> barrier and that impacts megreatly. today a new nurse in training

> from Asia who speaks very broken english to me was of dioing this and

> wanted to tell her to please have no more words to me or to stop but

> felt it would be of rude and hurt of her feelings so stayed of

> internally agiated at self for not being able to work in that

> situation effectivbely/ sondra

>

>

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

marie this is of a good ideas for me to try to do for medical peoples

in my areas that are of working with me. Today I to not had a calm and

needed to do somethings to make of me feel some better and wanted to go

see of shrek and Missy to say no she wanted to shopping and since did

need things i to went out and did of some. I tolove of new shoes and

buyd some and got of new socks and 4 new summer t shirts. And my Libby

some dog food and she is of now a happy dog for that. She likes to

gaurd over her food for a few days when new food is buyed she just

gaurds teh bag and grwls ad the cat to stay away.

the odd is of recent had called on the phone to the mother of me to

seek out medicalhistory and found that many aunts and uncles had of

gall baldder issues many had of surgery to them. even a cousin who was

in her 30s of age did be to ahve of surgery to the gallbadder. So oddly

enogh to find this out a few days backand then have of this shared to

me made of me think of that medical things of the family. The moters

side was of very physically sick like peoples and the father of me not

so much medical history but some things.

Sondra

[Guest guest]

marie this is of a good ideas for me to try to do for medical peoples

in my areas that are of working with me. Today I to not had a calm and

needed to do somethings to make of me feel some better and wanted to go

see of shrek and Missy to say no she wanted to shopping and since did

need things i to went out and did of some. I tolove of new shoes and

buyd some and got of new socks and 4 new summer t shirts. And my Libby

some dog food and she is of now a happy dog for that. She likes to

gaurd over her food for a few days when new food is buyed she just

gaurds teh bag and grwls ad the cat to stay away.

the odd is of recent had called on the phone to the mother of me to

seek out medicalhistory and found that many aunts and uncles had of

gall baldder issues many had of surgery to them. even a cousin who was

in her 30s of age did be to ahve of surgery to the gallbadder. So oddly

enogh to find this out a few days backand then have of this shared to

me made of me think of that medical things of the family. The moters

side was of very physically sick like peoples and the father of me not

so much medical history but some things.

Sondra

[Guest guest]

Sondra, I'm glad some of my input was helpful. Getting more of a family

medical history is always good; it helps the docs to figure out what might

be going on.

Still, having a note saying something like : My name is Sondra & I have

autism. Please speak slowly & clearly & give me time to process what you

have just said. I will ask if I don't understand, but please don't repeat

or vary the same question repeatedly. Please give me (x amount of time) 10

secs to process your question.

Or something like that to help the medical people to work with you.

Hope you feel like your usual self again soon.

Marie

>

> marie this is of a good ideas for me to try to do for medical peoples

> in my areas that are of working with me. Today I to not had a calm and

> needed to do somethings to make of me feel some better and wanted to go

> see of shrek and Missy to say no she wanted to shopping and since did

> need things i to went out and did of some. I tolove of new shoes and

> buyd some and got of new socks and 4 new summer t shirts. And my Libby

> some dog food and she is of now a happy dog for that. She likes to

> gaurd over her food for a few days when new food is buyed she just

> gaurds teh bag and grwls ad the cat to stay away.

>

> the odd is of recent had called on the phone to the mother of me to

> seek out medicalhistory and found that many aunts and uncles had of

> gall baldder issues many had of surgery to them. even a cousin who was

> in her 30s of age did be to ahve of surgery to the gallbadder. So oddly

> enogh to find this out a few days backand then have of this shared to

> me made of me think of that medical things of the family. The moters

> side was of very physically sick like peoples and the father of me not

> so much medical history but some things.

>

> Sondra

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Sondra, I'm glad some of my input was helpful. Getting more of a family

medical history is always good; it helps the docs to figure out what might

be going on.

Still, having a note saying something like : My name is Sondra & I have

autism. Please speak slowly & clearly & give me time to process what you

have just said. I will ask if I don't understand, but please don't repeat

or vary the same question repeatedly. Please give me (x amount of time) 10

secs to process your question.

Or something like that to help the medical people to work with you.

Hope you feel like your usual self again soon.

Marie

>

> marie this is of a good ideas for me to try to do for medical peoples

> in my areas that are of working with me. Today I to not had a calm and

> needed to do somethings to make of me feel some better and wanted to go

> see of shrek and Missy to say no she wanted to shopping and since did

> need things i to went out and did of some. I tolove of new shoes and

> buyd some and got of new socks and 4 new summer t shirts. And my Libby

> some dog food and she is of now a happy dog for that. She likes to

> gaurd over her food for a few days when new food is buyed she just

> gaurds teh bag and grwls ad the cat to stay away.

>

> the odd is of recent had called on the phone to the mother of me to

> seek out medicalhistory and found that many aunts and uncles had of

> gall baldder issues many had of surgery to them. even a cousin who was

> in her 30s of age did be to ahve of surgery to the gallbadder. So oddly

> enogh to find this out a few days backand then have of this shared to

> me made of me think of that medical things of the family. The moters

> side was of very physically sick like peoples and the father of me not

> so much medical history but some things.

>

> Sondra

>

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[Guest guest]

marie the other issues I to struggle with is lacking what is of

important and not knowing how to be of specific to their answers I to

find self rambling tring to find out what is of that they are

seeking.

Such as sometimes they will ask when did the pain begin, well since

had some of these pains for years off and on lack how to answer that

question , and then they will ask where it is and I to lack the

knowing of exactly where it is located just a general areas with most

things.

Such as if have a severe ear infection might not notice it as being

pain in the ear so will say having headaches or pressure in my head

and it isnot thinked to be of ear infection by the doctor unless she

checks of my ears. ..

But if my tummy is of hurting really cant tell where it is in

specific but just that it does not feel right and can have cramping

feelings all over. Some will ask of me to rate the pains and often

cant do that as not aware of the intensity for self of pains cant

register that unless the pain is in an areas where it is registering

and can be of more specific. I to register headaches, nausea, hip

join pains, I to also react and register much so temperature changes

to self. such as hot and chills.

But maybe this is of a good things to have a note attached and also

to have of a good business like card on my autism in ways that it

presentaions affact me. this can be of one to take with me everytime

I to go.

Lastly, I to b of trying to find a good place to order medical alert

bracelets for self. I to need one for allergies but want a good nice

bracelet that discloses of my autism and has of emergency number on

the back of it with a birthstone of december color.

Sondra

[Guest guest]

Sondra, in my nursing class this semester we were introduced to

patient assessment. What I have been taught is that, as nurses, we are

to be concerned with the whole person and what ever is important to

you should be important to your nurse doing your assessment. If you

feel that having a pain off and on for years is important, then it's

important to say so to your health care providers. If you aren't sure

how you feel, telling them you aren't sure is important, it tells the

nurse that you need help in understanding what's going on with your

body. That's part of his/her job to help you understand what the

problem is and how to go about healing you.

Of course, I know a lot of what I'm being taught unfortunately isn't

practiced in the work setting, but you should never be afraid or

embarassed to say what ever you feel like needs saying. They should be

taking the time to ensure they are getting all the information and

communicating everything you need to communicate, even if that's

sometimes " I don't know. " That should be a sign to them to slow down

and look deeper at your situation and spend more time with you to give

you better understanding.

Debi

[Guest guest]

Sondra, in my nursing class this semester we were introduced to

patient assessment. What I have been taught is that, as nurses, we are

to be concerned with the whole person and what ever is important to

you should be important to your nurse doing your assessment. If you

feel that having a pain off and on for years is important, then it's

important to say so to your health care providers. If you aren't sure

how you feel, telling them you aren't sure is important, it tells the

nurse that you need help in understanding what's going on with your

body. That's part of his/her job to help you understand what the

problem is and how to go about healing you.

Of course, I know a lot of what I'm being taught unfortunately isn't

practiced in the work setting, but you should never be afraid or

embarassed to say what ever you feel like needs saying. They should be

taking the time to ensure they are getting all the information and

communicating everything you need to communicate, even if that's

sometimes " I don't know. " That should be a sign to them to slow down

and look deeper at your situation and spend more time with you to give

you better understanding.

Debi

[Guest guest]

Debbie the nurses of her office are usually good ones who know of me

but this new one is of asian and speaks much fast in broken circles

of words that cause me to feel confused and in rapid shipts of no

longer knwowing within me my own thinking and feelings and so then

cant communicate anymore. I to wanted to speak to my doctor when she

came in over this but the nurse came in with the doctor so did not

know how to address it without being seen as a rude or offensive

person.

Sondra

In Autism_in_Girls , " Debi "

wrote:

>

> Sondra, in my nursing class this semester we were introduced to

> patient assessment. What I have been taught is that, as nurses, we

are

> to be concerned with the whole person and what ever is important to

> you should be important to your nurse doing your assessment. If you

> feel that having a pain off and on for years is important, then it's

> important to say so to your health care providers. If you aren't

sure

> how you feel, telling them you aren't sure is important, it tells

the

> nurse that you need help in understanding what's going on with your

> body. That's part of his/her job to help you understand what the

> problem is and how to go about healing you.

>

> Of course, I know a lot of what I'm being taught unfortunately isn't

> practiced in the work setting, but you should never be afraid or

> embarassed to say what ever you feel like needs saying. They should

be

> taking the time to ensure they are getting all the information and

> communicating everything you need to communicate, even if that's

> sometimes " I don't know. " That should be a sign to them to slow down

> and look deeper at your situation and spend more time with you to

give

> you better understanding.

>

> Debi

>

[Guest guest]

Debbie the nurses of her office are usually good ones who know of me

but this new one is of asian and speaks much fast in broken circles

of words that cause me to feel confused and in rapid shipts of no

longer knwowing within me my own thinking and feelings and so then

cant communicate anymore. I to wanted to speak to my doctor when she

came in over this but the nurse came in with the doctor so did not

know how to address it without being seen as a rude or offensive

person.

Sondra

In Autism_in_Girls , " Debi "

wrote:

>

> Sondra, in my nursing class this semester we were introduced to

> patient assessment. What I have been taught is that, as nurses, we

are

> to be concerned with the whole person and what ever is important to

> you should be important to your nurse doing your assessment. If you

> feel that having a pain off and on for years is important, then it's

> important to say so to your health care providers. If you aren't

sure

> how you feel, telling them you aren't sure is important, it tells

the

> nurse that you need help in understanding what's going on with your

> body. That's part of his/her job to help you understand what the

> problem is and how to go about healing you.

>

> Of course, I know a lot of what I'm being taught unfortunately isn't

> practiced in the work setting, but you should never be afraid or

> embarassed to say what ever you feel like needs saying. They should

be

> taking the time to ensure they are getting all the information and

> communicating everything you need to communicate, even if that's

> sometimes " I don't know. " That should be a sign to them to slow down

> and look deeper at your situation and spend more time with you to

give

> you better understanding.

>

> Debi

>

[Guest guest]

That's totally understandable. I hate dealing with people who don't

speak clearly, I have enough hearing issues as it is.

Debi

>

> Debbie the nurses of her office are usually good ones who know of me

> but this new one is of asian and speaks much fast in broken circles

> of words that cause me to feel confused and in rapid shipts of no

> longer knwowing within me my own thinking and feelings and so then

> cant communicate anymore. I to wanted to speak to my doctor when she

> came in over this but the nurse came in with the doctor so did not

> know how to address it without being seen as a rude or offensive

> person.

> Sondra

>