Advice about dealing with dying

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Hi,

My mom quit dialysis this week and is on hospice care. Anyone have advice

to help my ocd daughter deal with these next days? She had trouble with my

mom (often because of ocd) but we've been able to talk through lots of those

issues. Yesterday she asked if dying trumped everything and last night she

was mad at me because I didn't care about her only about my dying mom. This

morning she was regretting because her sister said goodby to Grandma better

than she did. My mom is not responding today and may die today. My

daughter has seen her many times this week when my mom was well. They

played games and had meals together. But I guess my daughter didn't say

" goodby " perfectly so she's thinking it doesn't count.

Any suggestions are welcome. I'll just keep loving her and doing my best

but it's hard when i am so stretched and so tired.

Thanks,

Kelli