Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 , Since Penny and I are from the same area, we have known each other for sometime. Penny is not the kind of person that would belittle anyone. I am 100% sure that Penny wrote that to invite you to get to know all of us and so that we can get to know you as well. I understand about some groups being cliquish. Out of all my groups, this is my favorite. Everyone is welcome here and it is my hopes that people feel that they can speak freely. The women on this group that are on the autism spectrum are an amazing group of people. Personally I have learned so much from them. I am grateful that they are here. Welcome to the group! Pennie Abby's Mom ************************************** See what's new at http://www.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 LOL @ Real life. Instead of what? LOL Pennie Abby's Mom ************************************** See what's new at http://www.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 LOL @ Real life. Instead of what? LOL Pennie Abby's Mom ************************************** See what's new at http://www.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 I just know people from reading the posts, some post more than others, but I think this is a very friendly group over all! Buttercup wrote: Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling ignored. Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? Thank you, Crystal B http://www.myspace.com/breger3 http://bethpuzzle.blogspot.com/ http://www.youravon.com/cbreger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 I just know people from reading the posts, some post more than others, but I think this is a very friendly group over all! Buttercup wrote: Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling ignored. Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? Thank you, Crystal B http://www.myspace.com/breger3 http://bethpuzzle.blogspot.com/ http://www.youravon.com/cbreger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 We don't all know each other, and most are hard to break into...I only talk to one person off of one of my groups. That is it...but just having that one person is an excellent source of support...even if it's just to gripe about stuff to each other. Buttercup wrote: Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling ignored. Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? Thank you, __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 We don't all know each other, and most are hard to break into...I only talk to one person off of one of my groups. That is it...but just having that one person is an excellent source of support...even if it's just to gripe about stuff to each other. Buttercup wrote: Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling ignored. Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? Thank you, __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 No, I personally don't know anyone on this list. I'm way out in Connecticut...all of the listers here are friendly..and will chime in with an opinion or idea if they feel there is a need to. Just knowing that you're NOT alone...is very comforting..and that there IS a place to go to for venting...and comradery. Take care.. CT Do you all know each other? Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling ignored. Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? Thank you, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 No, I personally don't know anyone on this list. I'm way out in Connecticut...all of the listers here are friendly..and will chime in with an opinion or idea if they feel there is a need to. Just knowing that you're NOT alone...is very comforting..and that there IS a place to go to for venting...and comradery. Take care.. CT Do you all know each other? Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling ignored. Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? Thank you, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 I know Shanna personally, have talked to a few others on the phone. Do you feel left out? I hope not. Debi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 I know Shanna personally, have talked to a few others on the phone. Do you feel left out? I hope not. Debi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 I don't know anyone personally either. I just joined last week and already everyone has been very helpful and friendly. Thanks you guys! --- " L. Sherwood " wrote: > No, I personally don't know anyone on this list. > I'm way out in Connecticut...all of the listers here > are friendly..and will chime in with an opinion or > idea if they feel there is a need to. > > Just knowing that you're NOT alone...is very > comforting..and that there IS a place to go to for > venting...and comradery. > > Take care.. > > > CT > Do you all know each > other? > > > Do most of the people on this forum know each > other? I know that most > forums are difficult to 'break into', and > sometimes leave you feeling > ignored. > > Just wondering if this is the case with this > group? Do you all only > talk to people you know? Or do you welcome > newcomers? > > Thank you, > > > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > Rebekah Phil 4:8 & #10084; __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 I don't know anyone personally either. I just joined last week and already everyone has been very helpful and friendly. Thanks you guys! --- " L. Sherwood " wrote: > No, I personally don't know anyone on this list. > I'm way out in Connecticut...all of the listers here > are friendly..and will chime in with an opinion or > idea if they feel there is a need to. > > Just knowing that you're NOT alone...is very > comforting..and that there IS a place to go to for > venting...and comradery. > > Take care.. > > > CT > Do you all know each > other? > > > Do most of the people on this forum know each > other? I know that most > forums are difficult to 'break into', and > sometimes leave you feeling > ignored. > > Just wondering if this is the case with this > group? Do you all only > talk to people you know? Or do you welcome > newcomers? > > Thank you, > > > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > Rebekah Phil 4:8 & #10084; __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 WANT ONE OF US TO CALL YOU? LOL! I know some in real life, have talked to some on the phone, and know some from being here a long time. This is a great group! Stay and get to know us and let us get to know you. Penny > > Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most > forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling > ignored. > > Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only > talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? > > Thank you, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 WANT ONE OF US TO CALL YOU? LOL! I know some in real life, have talked to some on the phone, and know some from being here a long time. This is a great group! Stay and get to know us and let us get to know you. Penny > > Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most > forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling > ignored. > > Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only > talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? > > Thank you, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 Hi Melinda from Massachusetts here, mom to beautiful 14 year old . Welcome to you and all the newcomers. Lots of us are just busy and dealing with life in all it's guises and maybe catch up on posts just a few times a week, read much more often than we write, and we may not respond to each post but the general feeling of this group is very warm and supportive.This is the best group I've experienced and one of the very few I stay active on. I wish we could all meet and have a pot luck or something. Know you are welcome here, and we will chime in when and as we can. ************************************** See what's new at http://www.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 Hi Melinda from Massachusetts here, mom to beautiful 14 year old . Welcome to you and all the newcomers. Lots of us are just busy and dealing with life in all it's guises and maybe catch up on posts just a few times a week, read much more often than we write, and we may not respond to each post but the general feeling of this group is very warm and supportive.This is the best group I've experienced and one of the very few I stay active on. I wish we could all meet and have a pot luck or something. Know you are welcome here, and we will chime in when and as we can. ************************************** See what's new at http://www.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 Penny, No, I wasn't needing anyone to call me. I can't tell if that is a joke or your way of belittling my feelings. Some Groups are VERY exclusive and VERY difficult to break into. Sometimes you join a group and they barely acknowledge you. Sometimes these groups are geographically localized and are really only meant for a specific group of people. I was looking for a group of parents that specifically had girls with autism. It has been very difficult to find other parents of girls, let alone parents that were open and willing to talk candidly and openly about their feelings and situations surrouding their daughters. Having a place to express my feelings and helping to support others was what I was hoping to find here. I just was not sure if you all were that type of group. It was feeling like you all only wanted to speak with people you knew. That is why I was asking. I put a lot of energy into my family. There are times when I feel my 'tank' is running on 'empty'. As a mom and wife you just give and give and give. Sometimes it's nice to be on the receiving end and feel you are being understood by others. I was just hoping to meet and chat with other moms in my same position facing some of the same issues. That is all. > > > > Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most > > forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling > > ignored. > > > > Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only > > talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? > > > > Thank you, > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 Penny, No, I wasn't needing anyone to call me. I can't tell if that is a joke or your way of belittling my feelings. Some Groups are VERY exclusive and VERY difficult to break into. Sometimes you join a group and they barely acknowledge you. Sometimes these groups are geographically localized and are really only meant for a specific group of people. I was looking for a group of parents that specifically had girls with autism. It has been very difficult to find other parents of girls, let alone parents that were open and willing to talk candidly and openly about their feelings and situations surrouding their daughters. Having a place to express my feelings and helping to support others was what I was hoping to find here. I just was not sure if you all were that type of group. It was feeling like you all only wanted to speak with people you knew. That is why I was asking. I put a lot of energy into my family. There are times when I feel my 'tank' is running on 'empty'. As a mom and wife you just give and give and give. Sometimes it's nice to be on the receiving end and feel you are being understood by others. I was just hoping to meet and chat with other moms in my same position facing some of the same issues. That is all. > > > > Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most > > forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling > > ignored. > > > > Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only > > talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? > > > > Thank you, > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 Hi , This is exactly that type of group in my opinion. When I joined, I didn't know anyone & still felt very welcome. Since then, I still don't know anyone personally, but reading others posts, I have seen venting on all kinds of topics, jokes, education, & everything under the sun. Personally, this is my favorite group b/c here, I feel I can post anything & generally it's taken in a positive light & no flame wars b/c someone gets offended & shoots back. I feel this group is very friendly & responsive to what each of us posts. Things in print just can't convey the intent very well, so I try to look at what I think the person is trying to say & is not intentionally " attacking " or being negative in how it's written. Not knowing the personality of a particular person also makes it difficult to see their intent. I have never found anyone to make fun OF me, with me, sometimes, but never at my expense. If you read some of the past posts, I think you'll get the feel for this group. So, join in & post whatever you want to get off your chest. Marie A. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 Hi , This is exactly that type of group in my opinion. When I joined, I didn't know anyone & still felt very welcome. Since then, I still don't know anyone personally, but reading others posts, I have seen venting on all kinds of topics, jokes, education, & everything under the sun. Personally, this is my favorite group b/c here, I feel I can post anything & generally it's taken in a positive light & no flame wars b/c someone gets offended & shoots back. I feel this group is very friendly & responsive to what each of us posts. Things in print just can't convey the intent very well, so I try to look at what I think the person is trying to say & is not intentionally " attacking " or being negative in how it's written. Not knowing the personality of a particular person also makes it difficult to see their intent. I have never found anyone to make fun OF me, with me, sometimes, but never at my expense. If you read some of the past posts, I think you'll get the feel for this group. So, join in & post whatever you want to get off your chest. Marie A. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 Hey , I don't post often even though I've been a member for years. My daughter is 11 with HFA. Her name is . You'll find this group sort of like life...a few speak up regularly and some stay quiet for the most part. Everyone on this group is friendly, but we sometimes have disagreements, just like a family. Welcome to the group. Even if you just lurk for the most part, you'll find some great advice from these ladies (and Man - , Abby's Dad) . Diane ('s Mom) Re: Do you all know each other? Penny, No, I wasn't needing anyone to call me. I can't tell if that is a joke or your way of belittling my feelings. Some Groups are VERY exclusive and VERY difficult to break into. Sometimes you join a group and they barely acknowledge you. Sometimes these groups are geographically localized and are really only meant for a specific group of people. I was looking for a group of parents that specifically had girls with autism. It has been very difficult to find other parents of girls, let alone parents that were open and willing to talk candidly and openly about their feelings and situations surrouding their daughters. Having a place to express my feelings and helping to support others was what I was hoping to find here. I just was not sure if you all were that type of group. It was feeling like you all only wanted to speak with people you knew. That is why I was asking. I put a lot of energy into my family. There are times when I feel my 'tank' is running on 'empty'. As a mom and wife you just give and give and give. Sometimes it's nice to be on the receiving end and feel you are being understood by others. I was just hoping to meet and chat with other moms in my same position facing some of the same issues. That is all. > > > > Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most > > forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling > > ignored. > > > > Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only > > talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? > > > > Thank you, > > > > > > > Autism_in_Girls-subscribe ------------------------ Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 Hey , I don't post often even though I've been a member for years. My daughter is 11 with HFA. Her name is . You'll find this group sort of like life...a few speak up regularly and some stay quiet for the most part. Everyone on this group is friendly, but we sometimes have disagreements, just like a family. Welcome to the group. Even if you just lurk for the most part, you'll find some great advice from these ladies (and Man - , Abby's Dad) . Diane ('s Mom) Re: Do you all know each other? Penny, No, I wasn't needing anyone to call me. I can't tell if that is a joke or your way of belittling my feelings. Some Groups are VERY exclusive and VERY difficult to break into. Sometimes you join a group and they barely acknowledge you. Sometimes these groups are geographically localized and are really only meant for a specific group of people. I was looking for a group of parents that specifically had girls with autism. It has been very difficult to find other parents of girls, let alone parents that were open and willing to talk candidly and openly about their feelings and situations surrouding their daughters. Having a place to express my feelings and helping to support others was what I was hoping to find here. I just was not sure if you all were that type of group. It was feeling like you all only wanted to speak with people you knew. That is why I was asking. I put a lot of energy into my family. There are times when I feel my 'tank' is running on 'empty'. As a mom and wife you just give and give and give. Sometimes it's nice to be on the receiving end and feel you are being understood by others. I was just hoping to meet and chat with other moms in my same position facing some of the same issues. That is all. > > > > Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that most > > forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you feeling > > ignored. > > > > Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all only > > talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? > > > > Thank you, > > > > > > > Autism_in_Girls-subscribe ------------------------ Autism_in_Girls-unsubscribe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 It was a joke, but if you need someone to talk to, I'm serious, too. I'll call and listen if you need to talk. This is a WONDERFUL group of people and I think you'll like it. You need to jump in and be an active participant, we aren't the kind to force participation, but we welcome all opinions and ideas and comments and criticisms and vents etc etc etc. We are from all over the country, and one of the fun things about national events like Autism One or a DAN! conference or a national ASA conference is that sometimes we get to meet one another in real life and put a face and voice to the user id. Sometimes when the list gets really busy I have trouble keeping up. Maybe you posted something and I missed replying when I should have. I apologize if that happened. I think I speak for everyone when I say we don't want anyone to feel left out. WELCOME! Penny (who is different from the Pennie who can't spell her name correctly, although we know one another in real life because we don't live too far from one another...) > > > > > > Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that > most > > > forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you > feeling > > > ignored. > > > > > > Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all > only > > > talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? > > > > > > Thank you, > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 18, 2007 Report Share Posted October 18, 2007 It was a joke, but if you need someone to talk to, I'm serious, too. I'll call and listen if you need to talk. This is a WONDERFUL group of people and I think you'll like it. You need to jump in and be an active participant, we aren't the kind to force participation, but we welcome all opinions and ideas and comments and criticisms and vents etc etc etc. We are from all over the country, and one of the fun things about national events like Autism One or a DAN! conference or a national ASA conference is that sometimes we get to meet one another in real life and put a face and voice to the user id. Sometimes when the list gets really busy I have trouble keeping up. Maybe you posted something and I missed replying when I should have. I apologize if that happened. I think I speak for everyone when I say we don't want anyone to feel left out. WELCOME! Penny (who is different from the Pennie who can't spell her name correctly, although we know one another in real life because we don't live too far from one another...) > > > > > > Do most of the people on this forum know each other? I know that > most > > > forums are difficult to 'break into', and sometimes leave you > feeling > > > ignored. > > > > > > Just wondering if this is the case with this group? Do you all > only > > > talk to people you know? Or do you welcome newcomers? > > > > > > Thank you, > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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