p.s. Boyfriend showing abrupt loss of libido, lexapro

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Sex has never once been an area of conflict for us, I am not highly

sexual, this just came on suddenly and immediately, he became abusive

about advances I made which were never rejected before. Nothing

occurred in our relationship to indicate loss of interest, in fact, he

became more helpful and involved in other ways and for a few days we

were quite tender and sweet after it was exposed. In spite of my

ovulating... but that alone caused me to (nicely) ask... which made

him very, very angry.

Communication is at a standstill and I'm frightened by this behavior.

I'm frightened of the common anecdote of adding Wellbutrin, fearing

even more anxiety and extreme lashing out and unpredictable reactions.

At this point, I suppose he has left the relationship and the reason

is unknown to me. He's not cheating, there wasn't trouble... we had a

lovely thing and, BAM. If I say 'Hello, I miss you' he hears NAG NAG

NAG... his emotional loss of control as well as libido, make him feel

incredibly powerless I am imagining. And all I have to go on today is

my imagination, sadly.

What should my move be if anything?

Thank you all in advance for your compassionate guidance.