Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 Pardon me, but there was nothing abusive or personal in the message about the illiterate postings that had been coming through. I simply asked a question, I did not personally attack anyone. The other messages were in replies to quacks, which I do not apologize for. I have been working to tone things down and be more civil, but as someone else pointed out, people like you just take too much pleasure in slamming me no matter how hard I try. I simply can not win. Damned if I do, damned if I don't-but I will not go back to my old ways, that would probably make people like you even happier because then you could say " See? Told you so! " . Sue Re: Abuse?? > Since you asked for help finding these: > > Message post: 13616 - abusive to a man whose grammar was not top notch > > Message post: 13663 > > Message post: 13669 > > All within the last two weeks. > > > > > > I must comment on this. Can someone please point out the last time I > posted anything remotely abusive? > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 Sue, As I posted before I can definitely see you making an effort and I appreciate it. I think it is very unfair for all these people to attack you when you were simply trying to apologize. Don't go back to your old ways. You have a lot to offer. Don't stoop to the level of these people that feel the need to attack you unprovoked.SueNY wrote: Pardon me, but there was nothing abusive or personal in the message aboutthe illiterate postings that had been coming through. I simply asked aquestion, I did not personally attack anyone. The other messages were inreplies to quacks, which Ido not apologize for. I have been working to tone things down and be morecivil, but as someone else pointed out, people like you just take too muchpleasure in slamming me no matter how hard I try. I simply can not win.Damned if I do, damned if I don't-but I will not go back to my old ways,that would probably make people like you even happier because then you couldsay "See? Told you so!" .Sue Re: Abuse??> Since you asked for help finding these:>> Message post: 13616 - abusive to a man whose grammar was not top notch>> Message post: 13663>> Message post: 13669>> All within the last two weeks.>> > >> > I must comment on this. Can someone please point out the last time I> posted anything remotely abusive?>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 Thank you for your kind words, Kris. Sadly, is right, no matter how hard I've worked at changing, I will be hated by some people on this list. Today's postings confirm that. :-( Sue Re: Abuse?? > Sue- > > I am with you. I beleive on occasion you may (to use your term) > have been " abusive " in the past, I always read your posts....because > they contain pertanent information, and you obviously have a lot of > knowledge about Asthma. And I almost always agree with you, from > quack comments to whatever, although I don't necessarily agree all > the time with how its said. I have noticed a significant change in > your approach to dealing with people (yeesh, I am trying not to > sound like a school marm or something) and appreciate it. I do > really to point out that I have learned a lot from Sue about > Asthma...and isn't that the point ??? > > The ones I don't read...people who are obviously trying to sell us > something, obvious quack posts. > > Kris > > > > > > I must comment on this. Can someone please point out the last time > I posted anything remotely abusive? I have been making a concerted > effort to tone done and keep my mouth shut. I believe my recent > posts have been polite and civil. I still do speak out about the > quacks that post here, but I have tried to do so in a less nasty > way. I in NO way " abused " Beccy. I just pointed out that she was the > one screaming at us after I was told to " chill " and that I am " angry > and bitter " . By the way Matt, my post to you was not meant as an > attack. I apologize for it coming across that way, I was just trying > to help. I guess I make a lousy teacher. :-) > > > > Sue > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: Beccy Devitt > > To: asthma > > > > I am not prepared to have people like Sue giving me abuse. > > Beccy > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 Thank you . It appears I will always be hated here....at least by some. I will not go back to my old ways though. Sue Re: Abuse??> Since you asked for help finding these:>> Message post: 13616 - abusive to a man whose grammar was not top notch>> Message post: 13663>> Message post: 13669>> All within the last two weeks.>> > >> > I must comment on this. Can someone please point out the last time I> posted anything remotely abusive?>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 Sue you seem to be having a problem keeping track of things. You asked if anyone would point out where you had problems. You asked "please" tell me. Then you complain that people are responding to your request. Seriously, if you aren't interested in knowing, then don't ask.I don't hate you. I was not looking for a chance to put you down. I really don't care that much. I became interested because you asked and I wondered if it was true. So I searched on your email and read all your last posts. You may not think it is rude to tell a man from another country that you think there are too many illiterate posts, but I and many others do see that as rude. I'm almost laughing because there is a line from a movie that goes "if you don't think that is rude, then you must be from New York". Which I see that you are. As far as your damned if I do and damned if I don't comment. I'm wondering now how old you are. I disagree, I am willing to bet the entire farm (not that I live on one) that if you tried being nice to people you would have that returned to you. Also the next time you see spam, rise above it. The next time someone makes a grammatical error, don't bother mentioning it. These things exist and kind people do not mention them because they know it will cause hurt. The fact that you feel hurt right now seems to be because some of what you have put out there came back to you. Try sending some new signals. As for me not liking you. I don't feel any way at all about you. Nor will I engage in some long drawn out debate about this because it really is off the subject of asthma and is not of interest to the board. You're wrong, nothing about this has given any of us pleasure. Far and away from it. I never take pleasure in hurting people which is why when I read the emails with grammar problems, I said nothing at all. Unless someone asks me to tell them where a problem is. I say nothing. You asked.SueNY wrote: Pardon me, but there was nothing abusive or personal in the message about the illiterate postings that had been coming through. I simply asked a question, I did not personally attack anyone. The other messages were in replies to quacks, which I do not apologize for. I have been working to tone things down and be more civil, but as someone else pointed out, people like you just take too much pleasure in slamming me no matter how hard I try. I simply can not win. Damned if I do, damned if I don't-but I will not go back to my old ways, that would probably make people like you even happier because then you could say "See? Told you so!" . Sue Re: Abuse?? > Since you asked for help finding these: > > Message post: 13616 - abusive to a man whose grammar was not top notch > > Message post: 13663 > > Message post: 13669 > > All within the last two weeks. > > > > > > I must comment on this. Can someone please point out the last time I > posted anything remotely abusive? > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 Re: Re: Abuse?? I'm almost laughing because there is a line from a movie that goes "if you don't think that is rude, then you must be from New York". Which I see that you are. Actually I am from a small town in Massachusetts which is halfway between Boston and Cape Cod. I moved to NYC 4years ago to be near my soon to be husband.As far as your damned if I do and damned if I don't comment. I'm wondering now how old you are. I turned 37 on January 4th. Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 Sue-I can see your point on some things (i.e. the spammers), but we just need to learn to ignore those e-mails.I can see your effort at changing and I'm happy! :)dj Re: Abuse?? > Sue- > > I am with you. I beleive on occasion you may (to use your term) > have been "abusive" in the past, I always read your posts....because > they contain pertanent information, and you obviously have a lot of > knowledge about Asthma. And I almost always agree with you, from > quack comments to whatever, although I don't necessarily agree all > the time with how its said. I have noticed a significant change in > your approach to dealing with people (yeesh, I am trying not to > sound like a school marm or something) and appreciate it. I do > really to point out that I have learned a lot from Sue about > Asthma...and isn't that the point ??? > > The ones I don't read...people who are obviously trying to sell us > something, obvious quack posts. > > Kris > > > > > > I must comment on this. Can someone please point out the last time > I posted anything remotely abusive? I have been making a concerted > effort to tone done and keep my mouth shut. I believe my recent > posts have been polite and civil. I still do speak out about the > quacks that post here, but I have tried to do so in a less nasty > way. I in NO way "abused" Beccy. I just pointed out that she was the > one screaming at us after I was told to "chill" and that I am "angry > and bitter". By the way Matt, my post to you was not meant as an > attack. I apologize for it coming across that way, I was just trying > to help. I guess I make a lousy teacher. :-) > > > > Sue > > ----- Original Message ----- > > From: Beccy Devitt > > To: asthmayahoogroups (DOT) com > > > > I am not prepared to have people like Sue giving me abuse. > > Beccy > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 happy belated birthday sue Re: Re: Abuse?? I'm almost laughing because there is a line from a movie that goes "if you don't think that is rude, then you must be from New York". Which I see that you are. Actually I am from a small town in Massachusetts which is halfway between Boston and Cape Cod. I moved to NYC 4years ago to be near my soon to be husband.As far as your damned if I do and damned if I don't comment. I'm wondering now how old you are. I turned 37 on January 4th. Sue Never Miss an EmailStay connected with Yahoo! Mail on your mobile. Get started! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 31, 2007 Report Share Posted January 31, 2007 This is why I stop telling people how I got rid of my asthma, even though it might help them, might not. On my very first post Sue calls me a quack. After I explain myself - no apology, not a word. That's pretty rude to me. > >Reply-To: asthma >To: <asthma > >Subject: Re: Re: Abuse?? >Date: Wed, 31 Jan 2007 14:27:34 -0500 > >Pardon me, but there was nothing abusive or personal in the message about >the illiterate postings that had been coming through. I simply asked a >question, I did not personally attack anyone. The other messages were in >replies to quacks, which I >do not apologize for. I have been working to tone things down and be more >civil, but as someone else pointed out, people like you just take too much >pleasure in slamming me no matter how hard I try. I simply can not win. >Damned if I do, damned if I don't-but I will not go back to my old ways, >that would probably make people like you even happier because then you >could >say " See? Told you so! " . > >Sue > Re: Abuse?? > > > > Since you asked for help finding these: > > > > Message post: 13616 - abusive to a man whose grammar was not top notch > > > > Message post: 13663 > > > > Message post: 13669 > > > > All within the last two weeks. > > > > > > > > > > I must comment on this. Can someone please point out the last time I > > posted anything remotely abusive? > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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