Re: work on Roslyn's and Steve D's emails

[Guest guest]

thanks bev.. he made the snide remark before i called him extremely stupid..

so there... he hit me first... ros.....

I am now really going to work on my pretend book..

[Guest guest]

Ros,

I'd like to request that you carefully re-read Steve's post and the exchange

that led up to it...Do you see that Steve wasn't talking to you at all? His

original post was a clearly spoken compliment intended for Carol....You are

mistaken thinking Steve said anything that had anything to do with you...

Re: work on Roslyn's and Steve D's emails

thanks bev.. he made the snide remark before i called him extremely stupid..

so there... he hit me first... ros.....

I am now really going to work on my pretend book..

[Guest guest]

Are you clear that these are your interpretations of Steve's intent? (my

interpretation of what you wrote)

Steve

Re: work on Roslyn's and Steve D's emails

Ros,

I'd like to request that you carefully re-read Steve's post and the exchange

that led up to it...Do you see that Steve wasn't talking to you at all? His

original post was a clearly spoken compliment intended for Carol....You are

mistaken thinking Steve said anything that had anything to do with you...

Re: work on Roslyn's and Steve D's emails

thanks bev.. he made the snide remark before i called him extremely

stupid..

so there... he hit me first... ros.....

I am now really going to work on my pretend book..

[Guest guest]

I just love it how we all get in each other's business here. (I am being

serious here). My stuff is going like crazy and what I'm focusing on is

none of my business.

I am so pissed at and Steve D. I want them to have compassion for

their friend. I can feel the rage at the injustice.

Where is my compassion for them? Where is my attempt to understand, my

detachment?

I am so crazy.

Re: work on Roslyn's and Steve D's emails

Ros,

I'd like to request that you carefully re-read Steve's post and the exchange

that led up to it...Do you see that Steve wasn't talking to you at all? His

original post was a clearly spoken compliment intended for Carol....You are

mistaken thinking Steve said anything that had anything to do with you...

Re: work on Roslyn's and Steve D's emails

thanks bev.. he made the snide remark before i called him extremely

stupid..

so there... he hit me first... ros.....

I am now really going to work on my pretend book..

[Guest guest]

Steve,

Where is the absence of compassion in my request to Ros....I'm not finding it...

ps..

If you respond, I promise to listen carefully to your feedback...

[Guest guest]

---

Are you clear that these are your interpretations of Steve's intent? (my

interpretation of what you wrote)

Steve--

Steve,

Yes I am very clear I was interpreting Steve's intent...I am comfortable in my

assumption my interpretation was clearer than Ros's....I am not afraid to add 2

and 2 to get 4 simply because it is not PC or spiritual...FWIW I don't avoid

certain behaviors because I have " learned " it is unspiritual to partake in

them....Not anymore anyway...

[Guest guest]

I am not saying there is absence in your response. I am telling myself

that because you are pointing out a different perspective that you are

not respecting what she was saying. To me that is not compassionate (my

rules.)

Does that clarify?

Steve

Re: work on Roslyn's and Steve D's emails

Steve,

Where is the absence of compassion in my request to Ros....I'm not

finding it... ps.. If you respond, I promise to listen carefully

to your feedback...

[Guest guest]

Steve,

It doesn't really clarify it for me but I don't think it's worth picking

apart....Maybe in time something will pop..For now, I'm going to let sleeping

dogs lie...

B

[Guest guest]

---I am not saying there is absence in your response. I am telling myself

that because you are pointing out a different perspective that you are

not respecting what she was saying. To me that is not compassionate (my

rules.)---

Steve,

I thought about it more and now I do feel clearer about what you meant...And I

can find how I was not being compassionate by your definition ...

Thanks,

[Guest guest]

to steve, steve, brian, bev

I have no clue what any of you mean..its clear as mud. so we're all even...

I have no advise and no quote... amazing...

i did figure out from a work sheet i dont think Im good enough and I also

do not think other people are good enough to solve their own problems without

a qoute... from my 100s and 100s of self help books..

fact is we are all good enough.. to figure it out and advise I give others is

for me....

I am clear on that.. love,roslyn

[Guest guest]

Dear Roz:

What a beautiful, clear and clean post. Thank you for reminding me

that I/you have " no clue " . The good thing about that is you/I don't

need to know anything, until we do. By the way, from one who

is " good enough " to another who is " good enough " I wrote all of this

for myself.

Blessings, Steve D.

> to steve, steve, brian, bev

>

> I have no clue what any of you mean..its clear as mud. so we're all

even...

>

> I have no advise and no quote... amazing...

>

> i did figure out from a work sheet i dont think Im good enough

and I also

> do not think other people are good enough to solve their own

problems without

> a qoute... from my 100s and 100s of self help books..

>

> fact is we are all good enough.. to figure it out and advise I give

others is

> for me....

>

> I am clear on that.. love,roslyn

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Oh good... thanks roslyn