Guest guest Posted January 11, 2003 Report Share Posted January 11, 2003 In a message dated 1/11/2003 7:54:34 PM Pacific Standard Time, anafvb@... writes: > I loved the TA: I am being nice to her. It does feel true. > Still, I have mixed feelings about getting the police involved in the > situation. > Some thougths: > - reporting the incident to the police was not a nice thing to do. > - reporting the incident to the police wasn't necessary > - it was an over -reaction > - reporting the incident to the police is a way of saying we think > what she did was very serious and unacceptable > -Reporting the incident to the police will prevent it from > happening again > -reporting the fact to the police will stop her. > - reporting the fact to the police will make her think about what she > is doing. > > > Any other ideas? > > Love > Ana > Sweet Ana~ Since you were working with the idea of being *nice*...how about finishing your judgment: **Reporting the incident to the police was not a nice thing to do because.... Is there something you're afraid will happen to her as a result of the police knowing? What are the worst case scenarios that you can think will happen? Will they fine her? Put her in jail? Order community service? Where is your mind taking you with it? And once you get those ideas, ask yourself if those things are really *not nice* for them to happen to her. You did Work before about thinking you needed to protect your family and Al from your neighbor. Is there part of you now that feels like you have to protect her from the police? You're doing a great job, Ana. : ) Love, *mona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 11, 2003 Report Share Posted January 11, 2003 > In a message dated 1/11/2003 7:54:34 PM Pacific Standard Time, > anafvb@t... writes: > > > I loved the TA: I am being nice to her. It does feel true. > > Still, I have mixed feelings about getting the police involved in the > > situation. > > Some thougths: > > - reporting the incident to the police was not a nice thing to do. > > - reporting the incident to the police wasn't necessary > > - it was an over -reaction > > - reporting the incident to the police is a way of saying we think > > what she did was very serious and unacceptable > > -Reporting the incident to the police will prevent it from > > happening again > > -reporting the fact to the police will stop her. > > - reporting the fact to the police will make her think about what she > > is doing. > > > > > > Any other ideas? > > > > Love > > Ana > > > > Sweet Ana~ > Since you were working with the idea of being *nice*...how about finishing > your judgment: **Reporting the incident to the police was not a nice thing to > do because.... > > Is there something you're afraid will happen to her as a result of the police > knowing? What are the worst case scenarios that you can think will happen? > Will they fine her? Put her in jail? Order community service? Where is your > mind taking you with it? And once you get those ideas, ask yourself if those > things are really *not nice* for them to happen to her. > > You did Work before about thinking you needed to protect your family and Al > from your neighbor. Is there part of you now that feels like you have to > protect her from the police? > > You're doing a great job, Ana. : ) > > Love, > *mona > > You are such a great helper Mona. I am so grateful that you are there... I am also grateful that I am here trying to figure this out. Yes, there is a part of me that feels like I have to protect her from the police now. Oh my God! This sounds so crazy/funny/ so great over protective mother me! ........... Thinking about it, I actually find that whatever the police decides to do with her is not my business. There is actually nothing I think that should or shouldn't happen. .............. Reporting the incident to the police was not a nice thing to do because... .... neighbors should be able to solve their conflicts peacefully between themselves. (I feel there maybe more here) I will continue tomorrow. A Good night hug : ) Ana > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2006 Report Share Posted June 6, 2006 Good one, Kishoreda. To add to the confusion, isn't Rahul G's girlfriend Columbian ? Prabha'84 Shah wrote: " Really! Rahul should not have done this. " " You mean take drugs and consort with homosexuals? " " Wha...? Drugs? Homosexuals? I didn't know that. The most I had heard was that he had a Spanish girl friend. And in this age of globalization, that is no big deal. " " Girl friend? Which Rahul are you talking about? " " Aren't you talking about Rahul Gandhi? I was saying that he should not have postponed taking over as the General Secretary. " " Oh! ha ha! I thought that you were talking about the Mahajan kid's problems. Oh there is Ramesh. Ramesh! Just hear what confusion we had! He said that Rahul should not have done this, and I naturally assumed that he meant Mahajan. " " Yeah! Rahul really should not have done this. He should concentrate only on business and not politics. After all he comes from a business family. " " Now which Rahul are you talking about? " " Aren't both of you talking about Rahul Bajaj? " Kishore Shah 1974 ------------------------------ Website: www.mgims.org ------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2006 Report Share Posted June 6, 2006 Now I am confused! You are right, Prabha. Kishore Shah 1974 Re: Confusion > Good one, Kishoreda. To add to the confusion, isn't Rahul G's girlfriend > Columbian ? > > Prabha'84 > > Shah wrote: > " Really! Rahul should not have done this. " > > " You mean take drugs and consort with homosexuals? " > > " Wha...? Drugs? Homosexuals? I didn't know that. The most I had heard was > that > > he had a Spanish girl friend. And in this age of globalization, that is no > big deal. " > > " Girl friend? Which Rahul are you talking about? " > > " Aren't you talking about Rahul Gandhi? I was saying that he should not > have > > postponed taking over as the General Secretary. " > > " Oh! ha ha! I thought that you were talking about the Mahajan kid's > problems. Oh > > there is Ramesh. Ramesh! Just hear what confusion we had! He said that > Rahul > > should not have done this, and I naturally assumed that he meant Mahajan. " > > " Yeah! Rahul really should not have done this. He should concentrate only > on > > business and not politics. After all he comes from a business family. " > > " Now which Rahul are you talking about? " > > " Aren't both of you talking about Rahul Bajaj? " > > Kishore Shah 1974 > > > > ------------------------------ > Website: www.mgims.org > ------------------------------ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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