what are my rights?

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Can any one advise me what to do.

I have a 5 .5 boy with PDD/Autism. The school front line employees

receptionists/secretaries have the most horrible gate keeper

attitudes I am so new at this and I have only one child. It may be

only NORMAL for their attitudes to be abrasive. I had 2 different

scenarios on which I just could not get info on my child

The first one. My child had a medical procedure for which he needed

sedation. Usually he has reaction to the sedation not matter what

type it's used. The day after the procedure, I send him to school

he was fine in the morning. However, I wanted to check on him I

called the school to speak to his teacher the school secretary did

not connect my call to the classroom. She said: " Lady you need to

wait to the teacher conference time. It's a school policy not to

connect any ph calls to teacher class room " hung up. Not even gave

options like speaking with the nurse. I know about boundaries when I

called the school is because there is a particular concern I don't

do it every day just because!!! it's a sunny day or I am lonely.

The school will not allow me to bring lunch to my son during lunch

hours he must eat school food or not eat as a child with autism he

has serious issues with food textures well I packed lunch I called

several times the principal she never had returned my calls. I have

and advocate who will come with me to my ards she told me she dose

not have that problem with the school her son attends to she

really don't know what to do. I feel I need to speak with the

principal to address this issues are political policies more

important than a mother love and concern. speaking with the

principal may do no good the attitude may come from her. How do I

communicate with my son teacher. Do I go to the school board do I

tried to speak with superintended

What's the correct way to handle this.