Re: update- update on my hubby

[Guest guest]

thanks. I had myself a mini tantrum this morning- thinking gee what about ME?

so busy tending to everyone and they are all sick enough so as to be very self

absorbed, I let it get to me for a bit today.

Now back on track. Husband turns out now he has blood clots..but he does not

remember where in his body (he is still disoriented etc) so I hafta call and try

to get his VA doc to talk with me...I never have any luck trying to get docs at

VA hospitals to talk to me. And my mom who is supposed to have 24 hour care has

been alone since I left her Monday....my siblings are not stepping up to the

plate....and she would not let the home health aide begin working.....(she has

fired 3 before they ever even started- they were supposed to be a help to me in

caring for her)

- In , " " <Matsumura_Clan@m...> wrote:

>

> dreamer, I'm very sorry that you are having such terrible trouble in your

> family right now.

>

> I'm praying for your mother, your husband, your son, and you, too.

>

>

>

> Not an MD

>

> I'll tell you where to go!

>

> Mayo Clinic in Rochester

> http://www.mayoclinic.org/rochester

>

> s Hopkins Medicine

> http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org

>

>

> [ ] update- hubby in hospital

>

>

> > some might remember, I have been living on my mothers sofa the last 5

> > weeks, she has terminal lung cancer metatasized to her brain? Sadly my 4

> > siblings who live much closer and one has their kids already grown and one

> > has no kids at all yet....they have been NO help at all, in spite of mom

> > having kicked me out of her home when I was 12 and her having put them

> > thru college (PhDs) They do not even visit now that mom cannot babysit

> > their kids or dogs anymore.....

> > well, I had to send them this email this morning.

> > Please keep my hubby in your prayers?

> > Ray was admitted to the VA hospital in North Chicago (Great Lakes) late

> > last nite with sepsis, erratic blood pressure, respiratory distress and

> > pneumonia. This is a complication from the procedure he had approx 10 days

> > ago.

> > I have noone to watch my kids, so I will be unable to be at moms right

> > now.

> > Jimmy got hurt Saturday and a rock hit his eye, gouging and scraping his

> > eyeball and bruising it and has to go see an opthamologist this week per

> > ER, too.

> >

>

[Guest guest]

thanks. I had myself a mini tantrum this morning- thinking gee what about ME?

so busy tending to everyone and they are all sick enough so as to be very self

absorbed, I let it get to me for a bit today.

Now back on track. Husband turns out now he has blood clots..but he does not

remember where in his body (he is still disoriented etc) so I hafta call and try

to get his VA doc to talk with me...I never have any luck trying to get docs at

VA hospitals to talk to me. And my mom who is supposed to have 24 hour care has

been alone since I left her Monday....my siblings are not stepping up to the

plate....and she would not let the home health aide begin working.....(she has

fired 3 before they ever even started- they were supposed to be a help to me in

caring for her)

- In , " " <Matsumura_Clan@m...> wrote:

>

> dreamer, I'm very sorry that you are having such terrible trouble in your

> family right now.

>

> I'm praying for your mother, your husband, your son, and you, too.

>

>

>

> Not an MD

>

> I'll tell you where to go!

>

> Mayo Clinic in Rochester

> http://www.mayoclinic.org/rochester

>

> s Hopkins Medicine

> http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org

>

>

> [ ] update- hubby in hospital

>

>

> > some might remember, I have been living on my mothers sofa the last 5

> > weeks, she has terminal lung cancer metatasized to her brain? Sadly my 4

> > siblings who live much closer and one has their kids already grown and one

> > has no kids at all yet....they have been NO help at all, in spite of mom

> > having kicked me out of her home when I was 12 and her having put them

> > thru college (PhDs) They do not even visit now that mom cannot babysit

> > their kids or dogs anymore.....

> > well, I had to send them this email this morning.

> > Please keep my hubby in your prayers?

> > Ray was admitted to the VA hospital in North Chicago (Great Lakes) late

> > last nite with sepsis, erratic blood pressure, respiratory distress and

> > pneumonia. This is a complication from the procedure he had approx 10 days

> > ago.

> > I have noone to watch my kids, so I will be unable to be at moms right

> > now.

> > Jimmy got hurt Saturday and a rock hit his eye, gouging and scraping his

> > eyeball and bruising it and has to go see an opthamologist this week per

> > ER, too.

> >

>