Guest guest Posted January 14, 2010 Report Share Posted January 14, 2010 Hi: I am only about two weeks into this new world. My daughter, 9 yrs old, is now in treatment. We have her enrolled in a intense outpatient facility 5 dys per wk. She is out of school and working with an entire team who deal with only children. My daughter is now on Fluvoxamine and Respirdal. I am not convinced that the Respirdal is doing anything more than keeping her sedated. She is a petite little girl who looks drugged. She is on the smallest dose possible. The psychiatrist said if we, her parents, do not give her the Respirdal with the Fluvoxamine he will not treat her and she will have to leave the program. I honestly do not like this man at all but the rest of the team -- those that spend the most time with her daily -- are extraordinary people who have been very helpful and work well with her. Has anyone ever heard of a doctor refusing to treat a child if the parents didn't follow their exact advice? My thoughts are putting your child into treatment is hard enough - giving up your rights to make decisions you feel best for your child is unreasonable. Am I wrong here or just naive? Also, I'm reading a lot about this Pandas. My daughters onset was virtually overnight. We always new she had some OCD tendencies but once she confessed she has been " checking " for over a year (without us even knowing it - I have been blindsided by all of us, the not knowing as her mother)and she cannot stop. She clearly sees this is a problem and is frustrated. She has asked us to help her and of course we immediately did that. I have asked her pediatrician to order blood-work to test for anything any everything that could have possible triggered this onset. The doctor agreed but said really this isn't something that can be found in blood work. How is it diagnosed? Does is show up in blood work? What specifically should they be testing for? I don't get to post often but I read this as often as possible so please don't be offended if I don't respond right away. My time is so limited with driving her almost 2 hrs to and from and staying in that area all day long. I am so exhausted and much more frightened of where this all could lead. I just feel lost- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 14, 2010 Report Share Posted January 14, 2010 Hi, I'm sorry you are going through this. I can understand your frustration about the treatment program. It sounds like a great program to help your daughrter with the therapy she needs, but yet, if the doctors are not willing to listen to you and work with you on medication changes, I would consider pulling her out. Is she a difficult child with behavioral challenges? If not, they certainly have no reason to keep her on the Risperdal ( This med did the same thing to both of my kids) If the Fluvoxamine is working , they should leave her on that alone. I would ask what their reasoning is for the anti-psychotic. There are no tests for diagnosis with PANDAS. If the child's titers are through the roof and the child had a sudden onset, that is usually a good indicator of PANDAS, but still it is not always the case.Dr. K asked me if my son gagged on his food and was afraid of choking as part of his OCD, and he used to do that. He said that is a huge symptom of PANDAS. My son only had a few bouts of strep that we were aware of, but years later when he had bloodwork done, it showed he did have strep with NO symptoms.If he is around someone with it, he gets it and we don't even know it. Just some quick thoughts. I have to run! I wish you luck and Hugs!! Judy ________________________________ To: Sent: Thu, January 14, 2010 6:24:35 AM Subject: Risperdal & Flovoxamine  Hi: I am only about two weeks into this new world. My daughter, 9 yrs old, is now in treatment. We have her enrolled in a intense outpatient facility 5 dys per wk. She is out of school and working with an entire team who deal with only children. My daughter is now on Fluvoxamine and Respirdal. I am not convinced that the Respirdal is doing anything more than keeping her sedated. She is a petite little girl who looks drugged. She is on the smallest dose possible. The psychiatrist said if we, her parents, do not give her the Respirdal with the Fluvoxamine he will not treat her and she will have to leave the program. I honestly do not like this man at all but the rest of the team -- those that spend the most time with her daily -- are extraordinary people who have been very helpful and work well with her. Has anyone ever heard of a doctor refusing to treat a child if the parents didn't follow their exact advice? My thoughts are putting your child into treatment is hard enough - giving up your rights to make decisions you feel best for your child is unreasonable. Am I wrong here or just naive? Also, I'm reading a lot about this Pandas. My daughters onset was virtually overnight. We always new she had some OCD tendencies but once she confessed she has been " checking " for over a year (without us even knowing it - I have been blindsided by all of us, the not knowing as her mother)and she cannot stop. She clearly sees this is a problem and is frustrated. She has asked us to help her and of course we immediately did that. I have asked her pediatrician to order blood-work to test for anything any everything that could have possible triggered this onset. The doctor agreed but said really this isn't something that can be found in blood work. How is it diagnosed? Does is show up in blood work? What specifically should they be testing for? I don't get to post often but I read this as often as possible so please don't be offended if I don't respond right away. My time is so li! mited wi th driving her almost 2 hrs to and from and staying in that area all day long. I am so exhausted and much more frightened of where this all could lead. I just feel lost- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2010 Report Share Posted January 15, 2010 Hello Dema9 I know the feeling of helplessness and fear you are feeling in the middle of this crisis. I know the frustration when doctors don't seem to be listening and improvements are not coming fast enough. Worry about the future. Worry that the decisions you make might not be right. First, things will get better. People told me that and as much as I wanted to believe it, I wondered " how do they know " ? You are in crisis mode and your stress hormones and adrenaline are pumping at an accelerated rate. You need to deep breathe and reach the calmest state you are capable of reaching. You need to direct your energy where it will do the most good. I make these recommendations based on what I did right as well as what I did wrong. The smartest thing I did was keep a written record of everything. Conversations with the doctors and equally important behaviors and interactions with my daughter. If you don't have a written record of the weeks/months that have led up to this crisis, try and do that now. Doctors rely heavily on your description of behaviors. They cannot get a complete picture of your daughter based on the minutes they observe her, especially since they are observing a scared child in crisis. One of your questions to this group is should you find a new doctor that listens to your concerns? I could answer that both ways. First, I should have gotten a " team " for my daughter earlier. On the other hand, my doctor listened to me and chose a medication that I suggested instead of the one that she chose as her first choice. I was wrong and it took 6 weeks to adjust the dosage of " my medication " to the point that the medical communities' protocol (slowly raising it until maximum is reached before trying a different medication) agreed that it wasn't working. 6 weeks of trauma for both my daughter and myself. Many of the mistakes I made were due to my impatience with the process and my need to be " involved " with the decisions. So, perhaps you can accept that the doctor's belief in risperdol is well founded. This doctor does not know how to communicate well with parents so I would suggest that you talk to another member of the team to see if they can adequately address your concerns. If they have prescribed risperdol, it must be that they believe there is more than typical OCD involved here. The best psychiatrist in Illinois considers risperdol the drug of choice for mood disorders. If the team can convince you that there is reason to believe your daughter has some mood dysregulation, then you might want to give risperdol time. The " drugging " effect should be temporary. PANDAS is a possibility but that is still considered " alternative medicine " and you probably won't get much support from your medical team. You need to trust your team even as you question them intensively. Use your energy to educate yourself and develop an alternative plan that you can turn to if you loose confidence in tradition medicine. This group will be very helpful. Lots of wisdom and knowledge. Dorelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2010 Report Share Posted January 15, 2010 Doctors can and do refuse to treat if their prescribed care isn't followed - even in medical situations. I believe that that should be a last resort and if it isn't, he doesn't sound like a doctor who is wiling to work with you. That is key when you're dealing with a child. Mt son is on a tiny dose of Seroquel. When I tried to take him off, I saw some behaviors that made me start it again for now. Larger doses made him just about psychotic as do other meds. Another thing I noticed is that it takes a bit to really see the effect of the drug (a few weeks). Perhaps it wouldn't be outrageous to decrease the dose of risperdal. Relative high doses (doses high for the individual)can cause some of the behaviors that you're trying to quell and it so then it becomes a vicious cycle. Our psychiatrist is good in my opinion, but even he didn't realize that there were such things as treatment emergent side effects with some drugs and it took him a while to trust my instincts. Whenever he tries to sell something I ask him why we're changing things, when can I expect results, what symptoms should prompt me to call him, what are the other options. I have been in the depths of things like you are now, and I know you feel helpless. I think what helped us most was time and maturity and finding the right help. Perhaps you can have a team member speak candidly on your behalf with the doctor? They must see what you're saying too. Keep looking for answers and follow your instincts. You really do know what's best though I know it's scary when you can't find outside help. Best wishes, Bonnie > > Hi: I am only about two weeks into this new world. My daughter, 9 yrs old, is now in treatment. We have her enrolled in a intense outpatient facility 5 dys per wk. She is out of school and working with an entire team who deal with only children. My daughter is now on Fluvoxamine and Respirdal. I am not convinced that the Respirdal is doing anything more than keeping her sedated. She is a petite little girl who looks drugged. She is on the smallest dose possible. The psychiatrist said if we, her parents, do not give her the Respirdal with the Fluvoxamine he will not treat her and she will have to leave the program. I honestly do not like this man at all but the rest of the team -- those that spend the most time with her daily -- are extraordinary people who have been very helpful and work well with her. Has anyone ever heard of a doctor refusing to treat a child if the parents didn't follow their exact advice? My thoughts are putting your child into treatment is hard enough - giving up your rights to make decisions you feel best for your child is unreasonable. Am I wrong here or just naive? Also, I'm reading a lot about this Pandas. My daughters onset was virtually overnight. We always new she had some OCD tendencies but once she confessed she has been " checking " for over a year (without us even knowing it - I have been blindsided by all of us, the not knowing as her mother)and she cannot stop. She clearly sees this is a problem and is frustrated. She has asked us to help her and of course we immediately did that. I have asked her pediatrician to order blood-work to test for anything any everything that could have possible triggered this onset. The doctor agreed but said really this isn't something that can be found in blood work. How is it diagnosed? Does is show up in blood work? What specifically should they be testing for? I don't get to post often but I read this as often as possible so please don't be offended if I don't respond right away. My time is so limited with driving her almost 2 hrs to and from and staying in that area all day long. I am so exhausted and much more frightened of where this all could lead. I just feel lost- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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