1st days of s1st grade and meeting tomorrow

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My son did great the first day, not so great yesterday and who knows today. He

says now that he hates 1st grade, the days are too long, etc He acts out at home

but i give him his melatonin a little early and so far it has helped ( haven't

increased the risperdal yet).

Tomorrow I have a meeting with the school. They refuse to do a 504 or IEP. His

therapist is on vacation and I didn't know when the meeting was till yesterday.

So I will be tackling this alone. One thing that needs to be changed is my son

needs lots of bathroom breaks and drinks due to meds plus his sensory

integration disorder ( he doesn't know he needs to go until he REALLY needs to

go). Yesterday he said the teacher wouldn't let him go when he needed to( I have

no idea what really happened). I will get a docs statement if it comes to that

htough. any suggestions for going into this meeting alone and not knowing what

to do?