Guest guest Posted February 23, 2012 Report Share Posted February 23, 2012 our dear indy, my heart goes out to you. it is so difficult to be the care-giver. you are such a strong and loving person to do this for your parents. and you are doing a fantastic job... keep hanging in there. im proud of you for striving to also take good care of yourself and you are an inspiration, hugs, :*carolyn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2012 Report Share Posted February 23, 2012 Wonderful words, Carolyn! Indy, please accept them from me also and the rest of the group! Hugs and prayers, Re: Day starting off poorly our dear indy, my heart goes out to you. it is so difficult to be the care-giver.you are such a strong and loving person to do this for your parents. and you are doing a fantastic job... keep hanging in there. im proud of you for striving to also take good care of yourself and you are an inspiration, hugs,:*carolyn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2012 Report Share Posted February 23, 2012 ((HUGS)) and prayers, Indy! I know I could not do what you do and you have my deepest admiration!!Donna Subject: Day starting off poorlyTo: exercisevideos Date: Thursday, February 23, 2012, 8:26 AM I didn't get home until late (12:30) last night because my mom fell and had a nasty concussion. I spent most of the evening in the ER until they got a room to keep her overnight. She has some minor bleeding on the brain, that they expect to stop by itself, but want to closely monitor it "just in case." (Mom's 87, with dementia.)The dementia really complicates diagnosing a head injury, and whether she's "with it" or not. The doctors asked her questions like, "How old are you?" (51) and "What year is this?" (1948) and look to us, asking if that is "normal." Also, she complains to Dad about the terrible headache, and tells the doctor she has no pain... ("What about the headache?" "Oh, yes...that...yes, my head hurts.")I don't think I'll get a regular workout in today. As soon as Dad's up, we'll be heading to the hospital. I think it's going to be a long day, again... Prayers would be most welcome!Indyrose Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2012 Report Share Posted February 23, 2012 Indy your in my prayers. Having MS which affects my cognitive abilities (I feel like I have dementia some days) I can relate to your mom. Unless specifically asked what hurts you forget even though you hurt. I know it sounds crazy, but you hurt but its something you can't put your finger on, because it can be hard to get the thoughts or words out. Subject: Day starting off poorlyTo: exercisevideos Date: Thursday, February 23, 2012, 8:26 AM I didn't get home until late (12:30) last night because my mom fell and had a nasty concussion. I spent most of the evening in the ER until they got a room to keep her overnight. She has some minor bleeding on the brain, that they expect to stop by itself, but want to closely monitor it "just in case." (Mom's 87, with dementia.)The dementia really complicates diagnosing a head injury, and whether she's "with it" or not. The doctors asked her questions like, "How old are you?" (51) and "What year is this?" (1948) and look to us, asking if that is "normal." Also, she complains to Dad about the terrible headache, and tells the doctor she has no pain... ("What about the headache?" "Oh, yes...that...yes, my head hurts.")I don't think I'll get a regular workout in today. As soon as Dad's up, we'll be heading to the hospital. I think it's going to be a long day, again... Prayers would be most welcome!Indyrose Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2012 Report Share Posted February 23, 2012 Oh, I'm so sorry about your mom indyrose. My dad fell out on the ice last year and had some bruising on his brain. He fell on the corner of some bricks and it cut him on his temple. It also blacked his eye. Very scary. ~~ Sent from my Verizon Wireless 4GLTE smartphone----- Reply message -----To: <exercisevideos >Subject: Day starting off poorlyDate: Thu, Feb 23, 2012 8:26 am I didn't get home until late (12:30) last night because my mom fell and had a nasty concussion. I spent most of the evening in the ER until they got a room to keep her overnight. She has some minor bleeding on the brain, that they expect to stop by itself, but want to closely monitor it " just in case. " (Mom's 87, with dementia.)The dementia really complicates diagnosing a head injury, and whether she's " with it " or not. The doctors asked her questions like, " How old are you? " (51) and " What year is this? " (1948) and look to us, asking if that is " normal. " Also, she complains to Dad about the terrible headache, and tells the doctor she has no pain... ( " What about the headache? " " Oh, yes...that...yes, my head hurts. " )I don't think I'll get a regular workout in today. As soon as Dad's up, we'll be heading to the hospital. I think it's going to be a long day, again... Prayers would be most welcome!Indyrose Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 24, 2012 Report Share Posted February 24, 2012 Saying prayers for your Mom! JenSubject: Day starting off poorlyTo: exercisevideos Date: Thursday, February 23, 2012, 8:26 AM I didn't get home until late (12:30) last night because my mom fell and had a nasty concussion. I spent most of the evening in the ER until they got a room to keep her overnight. She has some minor bleeding on the brain, that they expect to stop by itself, but want to closely monitor it "just in case." (Mom's 87, with dementia.) The dementia really complicates diagnosing a head injury, and whether she's "with it" or not. The doctors asked her questions like, "How old are you?" (51) and "What year is this?" (1948) and look to us, asking if that is "normal." Also, she complains to Dad about the terrible headache, and tells the doctor she has no pain... ("What about the headache?" "Oh, yes...that...yes, my head hurts.") I don't think I'll get a regular workout in today. As soon as Dad's up, we'll be heading to the hospital. I think it's going to be a long day, again... Prayers would be most welcome! Indyrose Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 25, 2012 Report Share Posted February 25, 2012 (((Indyrose))) This is so hard. I can't put it better than Carolyn. My dad had dementia, so my heart goes out to you. I didn't get home until late (12:30) last night because my mom fell and had a nasty concussion. I spent most of the evening in the ER until they got a room to keep her overnight. She has some minor bleeding on the brain, that they expect to stop by itself, but want to closely monitor it " just in case. " (Mom's 87, with dementia.) The dementia really complicates diagnosing a head injury, and whether she's " with it " or not. The doctors asked her questions like, " How old are you? " (51) and " What year is this? " (1948) and look to us, asking if that is " normal. " Also, she complains to Dad about the terrible headache, and tells the doctor she has no pain... ( " What about the headache? " " Oh, yes...that...yes, my head hurts. " ) I don't think I'll get a regular workout in today. As soon as Dad's up, we'll be heading to the hospital. I think it's going to be a long day, again... Prayers would be most welcome! Indyrose ------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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