Re: update- hubby in hospital

November 1, 2005

Dear Dreamer,

My thoughts and prayers are with you all--may you find healing and

relief soon,

Judi

November 1, 2005

Dear Dreamer,

My thoughts and prayers are with you all--may you find healing and

relief soon,

Judi

November 1, 2005

Dreamer,

So often it happens in families that one person bears the

responsibilities of aging parents. It figures that YOU are the one to

take this responsibility in spite of a rocky childhood. You have so

much on your plate right now. I hope your siblings will step up to

the plate and help out. If not, your mom will have to be more co-

operative and allow the home heath aids to help more.

I will keep you, Ray and all of your family in my prayers. I hope

Jimmy's eye heals quickly. I'm sorry you have so much to deal with

and hope things get better for everyone.

a

On Nov 1, 2005, at 8:55 AM, dreamer_plus wrote:

> some might remember, I have been living on my mothers sofa the last

> 5 weeks, she has terminal lung cancer metatasized to her brain?

> Sadly my 4 siblings who live much closer and one has their kids

> already grown and one has no kids at all yet....they have been NO

> help at all, in spite of mom having kicked me out of her home when

> I was 12 and her having put them thru college (PhDs) They do not

> even visit now that mom cannot babysit their kids or dogs anymore.....

> well, I had to send them this email this morning.

> Please keep my hubby in your prayers?

> Ray was admitted to the VA hospital in North Chicago (Great Lakes)

> late last nite with sepsis, erratic blood pressure, respiratory

> distress and pneumonia. This is a complication from the procedure

> he had approx 10 days ago.

> I have noone to watch my kids, so I will be unable to be at moms

> right now.

> Jimmy got hurt Saturday and a rock hit his eye, gouging and

> scraping his eyeball and bruising it and has to go see an

> opthamologist this week per ER, too.

>

November 1, 2005

Dreamer,

So often it happens in families that one person bears the

responsibilities of aging parents. It figures that YOU are the one to

take this responsibility in spite of a rocky childhood. You have so

much on your plate right now. I hope your siblings will step up to

the plate and help out. If not, your mom will have to be more co-

operative and allow the home heath aids to help more.

I will keep you, Ray and all of your family in my prayers. I hope

Jimmy's eye heals quickly. I'm sorry you have so much to deal with

and hope things get better for everyone.

a

On Nov 1, 2005, at 8:55 AM, dreamer_plus wrote:

> some might remember, I have been living on my mothers sofa the last

> 5 weeks, she has terminal lung cancer metatasized to her brain?

> Sadly my 4 siblings who live much closer and one has their kids

> already grown and one has no kids at all yet....they have been NO

> help at all, in spite of mom having kicked me out of her home when

> I was 12 and her having put them thru college (PhDs) They do not

> even visit now that mom cannot babysit their kids or dogs anymore.....

> well, I had to send them this email this morning.

> Please keep my hubby in your prayers?

> Ray was admitted to the VA hospital in North Chicago (Great Lakes)

> late last nite with sepsis, erratic blood pressure, respiratory

> distress and pneumonia. This is a complication from the procedure

> he had approx 10 days ago.

> I have noone to watch my kids, so I will be unable to be at moms

> right now.

> Jimmy got hurt Saturday and a rock hit his eye, gouging and

> scraping his eyeball and bruising it and has to go see an

> opthamologist this week per ER, too.

>

November 1, 2005

Dreamer,

I am so sorry that all this is going on. I will keep you, and the

family in my prayers. I hope that someone will step up to the plate,

and help you out, you can't do all this alone.

God bless, Tawny

--- In , " dreamer_plus " <dreamer_plus@w...>

wrote:

>

> some might remember, I have been living on my mothers sofa the last

5 weeks, she has terminal lung cancer metatasized to her brain?

Sadly my 4 siblings who live much closer and one has their kids

already grown and one has no kids at all yet....they have been NO

help at all, in spite of mom having kicked me out of her home when I

was 12 and her having put them thru college (PhDs) They do not even

visit now that mom cannot babysit their kids or dogs anymore.....

> well, I had to send them this email this morning.

> Please keep my hubby in your prayers?

> Ray was admitted to the VA hospital in North Chicago (Great Lakes)

late last nite with sepsis, erratic blood pressure, respiratory

distress and pneumonia. This is a complication from the procedure he

had approx 10 days ago.

> I have noone to watch my kids, so I will be unable to be at moms

right now.

> Jimmy got hurt Saturday and a rock hit his eye, gouging and

scraping his eyeball and bruising it and has to go see an

opthamologist this week per ER, too.

>

November 1, 2005

Dreamer,

I am so sorry that all this is going on. I will keep you, and the

family in my prayers. I hope that someone will step up to the plate,

and help you out, you can't do all this alone.

God bless, Tawny

>

> some might remember, I have been living on my mothers sofa the last

5 weeks, she has terminal lung cancer metatasized to her brain?

Sadly my 4 siblings who live much closer and one has their kids

already grown and one has no kids at all yet....they have been NO

help at all, in spite of mom having kicked me out of her home when I

was 12 and her having put them thru college (PhDs) They do not even

visit now that mom cannot babysit their kids or dogs anymore.....

> well, I had to send them this email this morning.

> Please keep my hubby in your prayers?

> Ray was admitted to the VA hospital in North Chicago (Great Lakes)

late last nite with sepsis, erratic blood pressure, respiratory

distress and pneumonia. This is a complication from the procedure he

had approx 10 days ago.

> I have noone to watch my kids, so I will be unable to be at moms

right now.

> Jimmy got hurt Saturday and a rock hit his eye, gouging and

scraping his eyeball and bruising it and has to go see an

opthamologist this week per ER, too.

>

November 1, 2005

Soory to hear you are going through such a bad time of things right now. I hope

your hubby is ok and he gets well soon. Sorry to hear of the burden you have to

carry around.

take care you are in my thoughts

Joyce

dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@...> wrote:

some might remember, I have been living on my mothers sofa the last 5 weeks, she

has terminal lung cancer metatasized to her brain? Sadly my 4 siblings who live

much closer and one has their kids already grown and one has no kids at all

yet....they have been NO help at all, in spite of mom having kicked me out of

her home when I was 12 and her having put them thru college (PhDs) They do not

even visit now that mom cannot babysit their kids or dogs anymore.....

well, I had to send them this email this morning.

Please keep my hubby in your prayers?

Ray was admitted to the VA hospital in North Chicago (Great Lakes) late last

nite with sepsis, erratic blood pressure, respiratory distress and pneumonia.

This is a complication from the procedure he had approx 10 days ago.

I have noone to watch my kids, so I will be unable to be at moms right now.

Jimmy got hurt Saturday and a rock hit his eye, gouging and scraping his eyeball

and bruising it and has to go see an opthamologist this week per ER, too.

November 1, 2005

Soory to hear you are going through such a bad time of things right now. I hope

your hubby is ok and he gets well soon. Sorry to hear of the burden you have to

carry around.

take care you are in my thoughts

Joyce

dreamer_plus <dreamer_plus@...> wrote:

some might remember, I have been living on my mothers sofa the last 5 weeks, she

has terminal lung cancer metatasized to her brain? Sadly my 4 siblings who live

much closer and one has their kids already grown and one has no kids at all

yet....they have been NO help at all, in spite of mom having kicked me out of

her home when I was 12 and her having put them thru college (PhDs) They do not

even visit now that mom cannot babysit their kids or dogs anymore.....

well, I had to send them this email this morning.

Please keep my hubby in your prayers?

Ray was admitted to the VA hospital in North Chicago (Great Lakes) late last

nite with sepsis, erratic blood pressure, respiratory distress and pneumonia.

This is a complication from the procedure he had approx 10 days ago.

I have noone to watch my kids, so I will be unable to be at moms right now.

Jimmy got hurt Saturday and a rock hit his eye, gouging and scraping his eyeball

and bruising it and has to go see an opthamologist this week per ER, too.

November 1, 2005

You have sooo much on your plate right now. That's awful that your

siblings won't help out with your mom. Especially now, when YOU are

in need. I'm sooo sorry about your mom. Now your hubby is ill !!

When it rains it pours!! Hopefully the respiratory distress and

erratic blood pressure will resolve as they treat the sepsis and

pneumonia. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Make

sure you take care of yourself during all this. I know it is easy

to forget about ourselves when we have so much going on in our

lives, but it is VERY important. Easier said than done, I know.

Take care.....Prayers and Gentle Hugs...Marina

>

> some might remember, I have been living on my mothers sofa the

last 5 weeks, she has terminal lung cancer metatasized to her

brain? Sadly my 4 siblings who live much closer and one has their

kids already grown and one has no kids at all yet....they have been

NO help at all, in spite of mom having kicked me out of her home

when I was 12 and her having put them thru college (PhDs) They do

not even visit now that mom cannot babysit their kids or dogs

anymore.....

> well, I had to send them this email this morning.

> Please keep my hubby in your prayers?

> Ray was admitted to the VA hospital in North Chicago (Great Lakes)

late last nite with sepsis, erratic blood pressure, respiratory

distress and pneumonia. This is a complication from the procedure he

had approx 10 days ago.

> I have noone to watch my kids, so I will be unable to be at moms

right now.

> Jimmy got hurt Saturday and a rock hit his eye, gouging and

scraping his eyeball and bruising it and has to go see an

opthamologist this week per ER, too.

>

November 1, 2005