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okay i have not really vented and bitched in along time about my first born

ashton.....well now i am siezing the moment.......i was in my office doing

some research and ashton and cameron were in playroom attached to office and

were watching movie......i came out and flew off the handle.....ashton had

UNFOLDED ABOUT SIX LOADS of laundry and tied about twenty socks in knots

aroundher legs and arms......the laundry was all flattened and stacked

nicely but it was still unfolded....well i was unable to remain calm...... i

yelled at her to go to her room..... she cried for about an hour and then

stopped.... i have had enough of this.....she came home from school today

and cleared off a table, slammed doors and flicked lights..jesus where are

you or even mother of mary.....????? i am so shakey its scary....

i am trying to analyze what the hell is wrong with her....

1. does she need an increase in seroquel.....

2. she is on vantin and albuterol, can this affect the seroquel

3. her school sucks now because reg teacher is only there two hours a day

4. noone at school makes her work, note says " ashton refused to do math,so

we let her color and do playdough " hell she can do that crapt at home as far

as i amconcerned

so today i filed a complaint AGAIN !!!lol i also wrote school and requested

an updated FBA, assistance fromTTAC, and utilization of TAP services (the

autism project of virginia) i already know school will say ashtons classroom

teacher can provide all services and no outside agency is warranted...if

that happens which i can almost bet it will, i will file for due

process....this is ridiculous....and to get that i have to be in hell

again....i have instructed hubby who gets out of military in three months

that we are moving to good schools and community services...if anyoneknows

where those are please let me know..i will have my uhaul packed and truck

gassed..... take care all,,,.leah

ps i know this is a silly and stupid vent over the damn laundry....but shit

she has been doing so good,tomorrow i am tripling seroquel......

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joan,

thanks for the hugs and calgon...already tried the hotbath after the

slamming door flicking lights thing, but little miss queen of the loveboat

climbed in behind me, so i ended my bubble bath and she mesmerized in my

glory.lolol school was going great until the county made her autism spec ed

teacher the new director of middle school spec ed... its great for all the

kids,she will make a difference....what sucks is they can't find a

replacement for barb, the teacher. had hired a chic she stayed four days and

bailed out...they should have waited until the end of school year to do this

crapt....as a parent i am steamed because it totally messes up the

classroom...sometimes she is there i-3 pm or sometimes 930-1130 am, never

the same...that leaves the aides to do whatever...i respect them,but they

are not trained and they take the easy way out.... if ashton doesntwant to

go to reg ed okay she doesnt go....she doesnt wanna do math, okay lets play

allday.... its turning into a bonafide daycare...i love barb the teacher,

but my first and foremost importance is ashton, due process or hell, they

will meet her needs..... tc leah....and i don't drink often, but

tonight.....wellno comment....hheehehe

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>Subject: Re: vent vent vent stillfuming

>Date: Thu, 01 Mar 2001 18:21:18 -0800

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>At 09:09 PM 3/1/01 -0500, you wrote:

> >ps i know this is a silly and stupid vent over the damn laundry....

>

>It is? I thought it sounded like " real life. " Sorry about school. Here I

>thought you had whipped those guys into shape!

>

>I can soooooo relate.

>

>hugs and calgon (since I'm a non drinker...),

>j

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