Jane~ checking in

[Guest guest]

Oh Jane, my heart goes out to you and yours. When my 2 youngest were molested,

the grand jury decided NOT to indict because my girls were so young, and one had

a developmental disability and they just did not think the kids could articulate

well enough to present enough evidence to win the case, those every member of

the grand jury felt sick and sick and angry and were apologetic. When I was

told this, I swear the social worker read my mind as before I could get a word

out she said, " Now DO NOT go after those S.O.B's...your girls need you at home

NOT in prison. " @$!^#%#

Of course she was right, and through the years I have done all I can to help

them cope and grow...therapy was a big help in the beginning. But mostly it has

had to be my faith in God that helped me help them.

Know you and yours are in my heart and in my prayers.

Tess in Oregon

[Guest guest]

I know exactly how you feel. feels like the perpetrator will

not meet the terms of his probation (financially) and will wind up in

prison. The bad thing is, the molestor is her husband's nephew which

has caused a huge rift in the family. There are few times in my life

when I've been afraid of what I might do to someone, but this is one

of them. I am so sorry that you and your daughters had to live

through this kind of nightmare. I know that God will give us grace to

get through this. I also know that He will deal with this young man,

so I am just praying healing and peace fo the babies and the rest of

the family. Thank you so much for your prayers, and for sharing your

heart. i know it's hard to talk about. I hope your fibro flare has

calmed down and that you are having better days.

Love

Jane

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> Oh Jane, my heart goes out to you and yours. When my 2 youngest

were molested, the grand jury decided NOT to indict because my girls

were so young, and one had a developmental disability and they just

did not think the kids could articulate well enough to present enough

evidence to win the case, those every member of the grand jury felt

sick and sick and angry and were apologetic. When I was told this, I

swear the social worker read my mind as before I could get a word out

she said, " Now DO NOT go after those S.O.B's...your girls need you at

home NOT in prison. " @$!^#%#

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> Of course she was right, and through the years I have done all I

can to help them cope and grow...therapy was a big help in the

beginning. But mostly it has had to be my faith in God that helped

me help them.

>

> Know you and yours are in my heart and in my prayers.

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> Tess in Oregon

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