Need suggestions - IEP tomorrow

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Hi All:

We kept Tony home for the first three quarters of the school year and

homeschooled him. He thrived! It was great to see. We thought he was

ready to go back to school and he started 4th quarter in a new school that

has really tried to meet his needs. They have been as kind and gentle as it

gets in public school. The last three weeks Tony has protested by peeing

his pants. Last week he was peeing two and three times a day in his pants.

Today, all the way to school he said, " I don't want school " and he peed his

pants.

This is NOT a toilet training issue. He was potty trained at 4. It is not

laziness, he likes working and learning. It is an " I hate school " issue.

We have an IEP tomorrow to consider half days for Tony. We do all agree

that he gets over-stimulated and zones out but we also all agree he has

control over the peeing.

Any suggestions?

Lori

Mom to Isaac, 13 and Tony 11 (who hates school in case anyone missed that)