Having a promiscuous life etc...

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I don't know about that. Sex is a joyful experience any way you slice it. I suppose i could stop being "promiscuous" (much as I hate that word) and decide never to have sex again until someone proposes marriage to me - but realistically that would probably mean never having sex again for the rest of my life and I think that would cause me vastly more "all-consuming depression and self-hatred" than any second thoughts I ever have after having some "no-strings attached" fun with someone. And, let's face it, its a lot easier to get someone to suck your dick these days than it is to get anyone to have a cup of coffee with you (try it if you don't believe me)

Having been brought up as an atheist I guess I'm not tormented by all the religious guilt that haunts a lot of people anytime they have sex outside of wedlock etc...

Living in Toronto where both the climate and the people tend to be very cold, I know that the the odds of anyone wanting to have sex with me AND get to know me as an individual are close to nil - In any case, there is almost NO ONE I've ever met who would ever consider being a relationship with someone who's POZ in the first place so why bother setting myself up for disappointment.

So I guess the choice is to be single and have some sexual fun, OR to be single and never feel any physical warmth from another human being until the day I die.

I choose the former.

"But what you find desirable, Ifind sad. As someone who used to live a very promiscuous life, there are some "fun" moments along the way......but mostly that existence is empty and leads to an all-consuming depression and self-hatred."