Dapoxetine, plain and simply is an SSRI, you may as well discuss Celexa!

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Aloha and welcome new members and long-timer's and friends!

Can you believe that I only just HEARD about this Dapxetine for PE

TODAY (SEPT. 29TH!)!!!!!!!!

I came on here expecting to see nothing about it and announce it to

the membership and find one of the longest threads in the history of

this board going on over it...but, you know me, I HAVE to put my 3

cents in:

In most of the posts (if any, actually), I didn't see anyone say a

word about the ages of the individuals taking this " garbage " . I'll

admit that when I lost my virginity at 15, I did have plenty of time

to " learn " how to control PE (although my wife tends to be a bit too

playfull at times and when I tell her, " don't move! " , she'll get this

shit eating grin on her face and shake her ass like hell and make me

ejaculate on purpose!)

I'm now 51. I took Celexa for at least FOUR YEARS and it almost

destroyed my marriage 2 years ago. My marriage isn't based on love-

making, but the both of us have ALWAYS FELT that it is a miricale we

found each other because of the " magic " that seems to happen when we

do " have sex " .

Next May it'll be 28 years I've been married to her and now

I've " tapered " down from 20mgs to 5mgs and back up to 10mgs of

the " garbage " , Celexa. THE ONLY REASON I TAKE IT AT ALL IS I AM ON

TRT (testosterone replacement therapy) and I also take DEXADRINE to

keep me awake during the day but turns up the libido also. If it

weren't for those two things, I'd stop it altogether and go on a NON-

SSRI anti-d. If it didn't work, well, I won't go there this time

Vornan, OK?

Because there ARE some teens and 20-somethings (mostly) that have PE,

my advice to you is this:

Stay as far away from any SSRI as you can. There are OTHER THINGS

that do work for depression. As far as the PE goes, (literally) GET A

GRIP ON YOURSELF and learn some self-control! Am I the only one here

that can feel the big " O " starting to build? Well, guess what? 90

something percent of the women I've made love to in my life have

actually enjoyed it when I slow down to a hear stop or actually stop!

Why? Because they love the talking and other things that happen when

you get to that point. Honest. They can feel the heat. They know

what's going on and if you've been a good boy, stopping or slowing

down and hugging, kissing or talking during that time will make her

feel like you really care about HER feelings also. Of course if she's

ready for you to continue, BY ALL MEANS, DO! You don't want to

torture her! But I mean it. You CAN teach yourself enough self-

control by either practicing with your parner or through masturbation.

There is one alternative that I'd just like to mention that is sold

on the market and is a legit " adult store " item. DO NOT, REPEAT, DO

NOT BUY THAT DESENSITIZING cream or liquid or lube....not only does

it desensitize you, it also desensitizes HER somewhat (depending on

how much you've used). OK? OK!

I've gone on longer about this than I should. But Vornan knows that

I'm VERY anti-SSRI and knows what it did and done to me. For me it's

a balancing act, right now. If my TRT or dexedrine ever changes for

whatever reason, I'll have to make a huge decision. I'll cross that

bridge when and IF I get to it.

Aloha, good luck for now you all,

Hawaiian Wayne