Re: Is anyone still in the 21 dc with me

[Guest guest]

Doris, I'm sorry you feel left out. I wasn't in the 21dc group, but I do know

that some times people don't want to pry too much into other's lives and figured

maybe you had a personal reason or were just exhausted (most common problem).

This is the second or third time we have someone say they feel ignored. That is

definitly no ones intention here. Alot happens at a face pace (sometimes 200+

e-mails a day). Its hard for everyone to keep track of everyone else and we all

have times where we can barely respond to one message.

E-mails groups are like real life groups of friends in that at first when you

join a group you feel a little nervous and your feelings are very sensitive if

you feel someone doesnt listen to what you are saying. but if you talk to them

about their lives and keep talking about yours the conversation becomes easier.

No one is trying to snub anyone else and we want everyone to be equally

important members to the group, but every time there is a newbie it will be

akward. Thats the way making friends is (sorry to end with a preposition).

If you feel like sharing why you dropped out of the 21dc please do!! I'd like to

know. But remember how it is when you have a new friends sometimes you want her

to be the first to open up so you don't have to pry into that person's private

life.

Don't know if that made since. But please don't feel ignored!!!!!!!!!!! We are

glad to have you here!

:-)

<< Hello all

I was one of the ones that had to bail on the 21 dc

and no one commented on why I had to leave but they

did with everyone else, am I missing something or

what??????

Doris

Who feels very left out

As Deb has said: " Fitness is a journey and it begins with the first step. "

Visit our new vault site http://taeboon.isportsdot.com/

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 10/4/00 3:01:42 PM Central Daylight Time,

rwdw1999@... writes:

<< Hello all

I was one of the ones that had to bail on the 21 dc

and no one commented on why I had to leave but they

did with everyone else, am I missing something or

what??????

Doris

Who feels very left out

>>

Doris,

I'm sorry if I didn't ask why, I was reading posts at work yesterday and I

can't respond from my work computer only read..so please don't feel left out

cuz I for one definitely care why you left the 21dc...So, answer me

this...Doris, why are you not doing the 21dc...comeon share with me and I

promise to be more careful in the future...I really do care!!!!

Kathy

Who feels all alone on my 21dc journey, but thats ok..

[Guest guest]

Hello all

I was one of the ones that had to bail on the 21 dc

and no one commented on why I had to leave but they

did with everyone else, am I missing something or

what??????

Doris

Who feels very left out

[Guest guest]

<< Thanks for replying I just said I felt left out, not

really ignored , but anyway I have just been feeling

down in the dumps so I guess I wanted someone to feel

sorry for me well gotta go

Doris

Ok. Sorry your not feeling the best. Vent to us whenever you want. I sure do!

If anyone is starting a 21DC three days after I get back from LA I am in!!!! lol

(got to give myself some rest time)

[Guest guest]

I'm Sorry Doris but I don't recall seeing your message. Can you repost it

please?

At 12:50 PM 10/4/2000 -0700, you wrote:

>Hello all

>I was one of the ones that had to bail on the 21 dc

>and no one commented on why I had to leave but they

>did with everyone else, am I missing something or

>what??????

>

>

>Doris

>Who feels very left out

>

>

>As Deb has said: " Fitness is a journey and it begins with the first step. "

>

>Visit our new vault site http://taeboon.isportsdot.com/

>

>

[Guest guest]

Kathy I really dont have a good reason, at first it

was cuz I was tired but I want to start back cuz I

looked in the mirror and I didnt like what I saw

Doris

--- kbrost1@... wrote:

> In a message dated 10/4/00 3:01:42 PM Central

> Daylight Time,

> rwdw1999@... writes:

>

> << Hello all

> I was one of the ones that had to bail on the 21 dc

> and no one commented on why I had to leave but they

> did with everyone else, am I missing something or

> what??????

>

>

> Doris

> Who feels very left out

> >>

> Doris,

>

> I'm sorry if I didn't ask why, I was reading posts

> at work yesterday and I

> can't respond from my work computer only read..so

> please don't feel left out

> cuz I for one definitely care why you left the

> 21dc...So, answer me

> this...Doris, why are you not doing the

> 21dc...comeon share with me and I

> promise to be more careful in the future...I really

> do care!!!!

>

> Kathy

> Who feels all alone on my 21dc journey, but thats

> ok..

>

>

[Guest guest]

Thanks for replying I just said I felt left out, not

really ignored , but anyway I have just been feeling

down in the dumps so I guess I wanted someone to feel

sorry for me well gotta go

Doris

--- galofgop@... wrote:

> Doris, I'm sorry you feel left out. I wasn't in the

> 21dc group, but I do know that some times people

> don't want to pry too much into other's lives and

> figured maybe you had a personal reason or were just

> exhausted (most common problem).

>

> This is the second or third time we have someone say

> they feel ignored. That is definitly no ones

> intention here. Alot happens at a face pace

> (sometimes 200+ e-mails a day). Its hard for

> everyone to keep track of everyone else and we all

> have times where we can barely respond to one

> message.

>

> E-mails groups are like real life groups of friends

> in that at first when you join a group you feel a

> little nervous and your feelings are very sensitive

> if you feel someone doesnt listen to what you are

> saying. but if you talk to them about their lives

> and keep talking about yours the conversation

> becomes easier. No one is trying to snub anyone else

> and we want everyone to be equally important members

> to the group, but every time there is a newbie it

> will be akward. Thats the way making friends is

> (sorry to end with a preposition).

>

> If you feel like sharing why you dropped out of the

> 21dc please do!! I'd like to know. But remember how

> it is when you have a new friends sometimes you want

> her to be the first to open up so you don't have to

> pry into that person's private life.

>

> Don't know if that made since. But please don't feel

> ignored!!!!!!!!!!! We are glad to have you here!

> :-)

>

>

>

> << Hello all

> I was one of the ones that had to bail on the 21 dc

> and no one commented on why I had to leave but they

> did with everyone else, am I missing something or

> what??????

>

>

> Doris

> Who feels very left out

>

>

> As Deb has said: " Fitness is a journey and it begins

> with the first step. "

>

> Visit our new vault site

> http://taeboon.isportsdot.com/

>

>

[Guest guest]

Doris

Sorry you're feeling down *HUGS*

I had a really bad time last year when I'd HATE what I saw in the

mirror (mostly cos it looked like my mother but that's another story!)

but that actually fuelled my resolve to change what I saw.

Sometimes you just gotta try and find a way to look at something,

like the reflection in the mirror, from a different view point.

Try if you can to make it more positive attitude than negative.

I know it's hard to do, but like most things it can be come a habit,

it does work and can help you out of feeling down

Jill

who thinks Doris is amazing working out w/o the VCR for her dh

> Kathy I really dont have a good reason, at first it

> was cuz I was tired but I want to start back cuz I

> looked in the mirror and I didnt like what I saw

>

> Doris