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It has gotten nastier then ever. The hearing has again been adjourned...new date is Dec 10, 2007. In the meantime, he only has supervised access. I am not comfortable with where the access is being allowed to take place...one of his three residences. My main reason for not being comfortable with this is because he has already altered e-mails (that he submitted to the court) of mine and admitted in three different motions to video and or audio recording myself, my father, and my home. So I have not one doubt that he will video record these visits and then later alter the footage to his desire. If indeed he has sexually molested our children, I view this as taking the children to "the lions den." He has called me every name in the book in his most recent affidavit, stated that the kids would rather die then live with me (its hard to not let a statement like that hurt you), etc, etc. He is asking that I pay HIM (this is a man that is paying $0.00 in child support yet earned in excess of $80,000 last year working 2 out of every 8 days) $250,000 for "damages" and "various abuses" that he claims I have committed towards him over the past 15 years. He is also asking that CAS (children's aid services) pay him $250,000 for much the same reasons. In addition to that he expects the judge to order that CAS award him $10,000 each time they contact someone he knows in regards to this case. He is INSANE...Although I believe that he does have a severe mental imbalance I have refrained from stating that in court documentation as I am not a medical doctor. He has not refrained from it at all in regards to statements he makes about me...he is trying to get the judge to order that I have psychiatric testing done. I have no problem with it....as long as he has to have the same. I don't know how any judge can read this crap and believe that I am capable of committing any of his accusations due to the sheer fact that I am busy 100% of the time raising four children. Like I have time to drag them around with me while I am apparently trying to kill my ex husband who is 3 times my size and nearly a foot taller then me (6'4"). AND I'm not the one insisting that he obtain life insurance and list me as beneficiary like he is with me. Anyhow, I think that the rest of my life is going to be spent in the court room (if I am not murdered by him first...I guess he will refrain from that until I list him as beneficiary). Not only do I have my ex filing constant motions against me, and his mother....I also have his friends (or so he stated on Fri....I guess only time will tell). Granata wrote: Hi -I hope yesterday went well for you and your children. Lots of prayers continue to come your way! God DOES speak to us through our gut intuition. "Protect your heart for it is the wellspring of life." Thank you for taking the time to keep us updated so we can continue to pray for specific needs and support you however we can. We are all tied together with heartstrings... When one of us hurts... Well, let's just say that I'm thinking of getting on a plane and taking care of this guy myself. (Sorry, I missed Thursday's

bible study - I need to get my "behind" to church... :-) )Love,Mom to Haley & Nikki, 5 yr twin girls, both w/DS, and , 3 1/2 yr son> .>>