Re: heartbroken

March 1, 2008

Bethany,

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep your little angel girl and your whole family in my prayers.

Marcia

Mom to Sara (DS) and 13 and Lucas 17

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March 1, 2008

Dear Bethany,

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our prayers.

Please understand that we are always here for you.

Love,

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March 1, 2008

Dear Bethany -

I am so very sorry to hear this. It doesn't make any sense and it's not

fair; I'm sure you did everything right. God bless you and your family

and help all of you through this. I hope Sunday is a very special,

personal last day to cuddle with your sweet little angel that you will

be able to reflect on and hold dear. The role of mother is so amazing

and hard and incredible at the same time. To have such a beautiful

little miracle come to stay with you and be with you all for some very

special reason. I wish it weren't so fleeting...

Hugs from us,

Mom to three under five yrs., two w/DS

Bethany wrote:

>

> Well, the unthinkable has happened. We are expecting a baby due

> August 8th and at our 17 week appt yesterday, during our routine

> ultrasound, we learned our baby had just died. I really just can't

> understand how this has happened. We had a great ultrasound at 9

> weeks, a great ultrasound and blood work at 12.5 weeks, and another

> ultrasound (at a 3D/4D private facility) at 15 weeks. We had found

> out that we were having a girl. I finally felt like we had relaxed

> after seeing her wiggle all around at that 15 week US. Yesterday

> came out of nowhere. I have had no cramping or spotting. It still

> all feels surreal. Because of how far along I am the doctor really

> recommended that I go to the hospital and deliver. I just can't. I

> asked for some other way. I just can't go to labor and delivery, go

> through all the pain of labor and some pushing and leave without

> her. So, he is going to give me a cervix dialator medication on

> Sunday (which hopefully won't throw me into labor anyways) and then

> on Monday morning I will go to the surgery center and be put to sleep

> while they remove her. It just seems more peaceful this way. I just

> pray that I don't go into labor at home Sunday with all of my other 4

> children here. I don't want them to see me in any physical pain -

> the emotional pain has been traumatizing enough for all of us. Their

> little hearts are just broken. We had gone last weekend and let them

> each pick out a baby outfit as well as some binkies and bottles.

>

> I just feel broken.

>

> Bethany (mom to Allie 12, Cameron 8, twins Braden (DS) and Grant 6,

> and our little angel girl)

>

March 1, 2008

Oh Bethany,

My heart aches for all of you at this time of loss, I have not endured what you

have but have alot of friends who miscarried and it was so sad for all of those

involved, I will pray for all of you.

Irene

heartbroken

Well, the unthinkable has happened. We are expecting a baby due August 8th and at our 17 week appt yesterday, during our routine ultrasound, we learned our baby had just died. I really just can't understand how this has happened. We had a great ultrasound at 9 weeks, a great ultrasound and blood work at 12.5 weeks, and another ultrasound (at a 3D/4D private facility) at 15 weeks. We had found out that we were having a girl. I finally felt like we had relaxed after seeing her wiggle all around at that 15 week US. Yesterday came out of nowhere. I have had no cramping or spotting. It still all feels surreal. Because of how far along I am the doctor really recommended that I go to the hospital and deliver. I just can't. I asked for some other way. I just can't go to labor and delivery, go through all the pain of labor and some pushing and leave without her. So, he is going to give me a cervix dialator medication on Sunday (which hopefully won't throw me into labor anyways) and then on Monday morning I will go to the surgery center and be put to sleep while they remove her. It just seems more peaceful this way. I just pray that I don't go into labor at home Sunday with all of my other 4 children here. I don't want them to see me in any physical pain - the emotional pain has been traumatizing enough for all of us. Their little hearts are just broken. We had gone last weekend and let them each pick out a baby outfit as well as some binkies and bottles. I just feel broken. Bethany (mom to Allie 12, Cameron 8, twins Braden (DS) and Grant 6, and our little angel girl)

March 1, 2008

Bethany,

I am so very sorry. I was just thinking about you the other day because I hadn't heard from you since the picnic. My heart is just so heavy right now. If you need ANYTHING....call me. If you want me to come by and help you, sit with you, talk to you, give you a shoulder I am here. It helped me so much when Jordan died to have people close by. I will be praying for you all.Â

Much love,

Â Deanna, mom to

Alyssa, 14

, 12

Jarod, 7

(DS) 5

~i~Jordan (DS) 1/20/03-2/2/03

heartbroken

Well, the unthinkable has happened. We are expecting a baby due

August 8th and at our 17 week appt yesterday, during our routine

ultrasound, we learned our baby had just died. I really just can't

understand how this has happened. We had a great ultrasound at 9

weeks, a great ultrasound and blood work at 12.5 weeks, and another

ultrasound (at a 3D/4D private facility) at 15 weeks. We had found

out that we were having a girl. I finally felt like we had relaxed

after seeing her wiggle all around at that 15 week US. Yesterday

came out of nowhere. I have had no cramping or spotting. It still

all feels surreal. Because of how far along I am the doctor really

recommended that I go to the hospital and deliver. I just can't. I

asked for some other way. I just can't go to labor and delivery, go

through all the pain of labor and some pushing and leave without

her. So, he is going to give me a cervix dialator medication on

Sunday (which hopefully won't throw me into labor anyways) and then

on Monday morning I will go to the surgery center and be put to sleep

while they remove her. It just seems more peaceful this way. I just

pray that I don't go into labor at home Sunday with all of my other 4

children here. I don't want them to see me in any physical pain -

the emotional pain has been traumatizing enough for all of us. Their

little hearts are just broken. We had gone last weekend and let them

each pick out a baby outfit as well as some binkies and bottles.

I just feel broken.

Bethany (mom to Allie 12, Cameron 8, twins Braden (DS) and Grant 6,

and our little angel girl)

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March 1, 2008

Bethany-

My HEART IS BROKEN WITH YOURS! I truly do not know

what else to say right now-

Please hang in there and know that lots of prayers

are going up for you and your family!

Sincerely, Beth Schafer

(Momto and Landon 4 1/2 years old - DS)

--- Bethany wrote:

> Well, the unthinkable has happened. We are

> expecting a baby due

> August 8th and at our 17 week appt yesterday, during

> our routine

> ultrasound, we learned our baby had just died. I

> really just can't

> understand how this has happened. We had a great

> ultrasound at 9

> weeks, a great ultrasound and blood work at 12.5

> weeks, and another

> ultrasound (at a 3D/4D private facility) at 15

> weeks. We had found

> out that we were having a girl. I finally felt like

> we had relaxed

> after seeing her wiggle all around at that 15 week

> US. Yesterday

> came out of nowhere. I have had no cramping or

> spotting. It still

> all feels surreal. Because of how far along I am

> the doctor really

> recommended that I go to the hospital and deliver.

> I just can't. I

> asked for some other way. I just can't go to labor

> and delivery, go

> through all the pain of labor and some pushing and

> leave without

> her. So, he is going to give me a cervix dialator

> medication on

> Sunday (which hopefully won't throw me into labor

> anyways) and then

> on Monday morning I will go to the surgery center

> and be put to sleep

> while they remove her. It just seems more peaceful

> this way. I just

> pray that I don't go into labor at home Sunday with

> all of my other 4

> children here. I don't want them to see me in any

> physical pain -

> the emotional pain has been traumatizing enough for

> all of us. Their

> little hearts are just broken. We had gone last

> weekend and let them

> each pick out a baby outfit as well as some binkies

> and bottles.

>

> I just feel broken.

>

> Bethany (mom to Allie 12, Cameron 8, twins Braden

> (DS) and Grant 6,

> and our little angel girl)

>

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March 1, 2008

I'm so sorry about your loss. My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family as you go through this hearbreaking time. Judy 's MOm

heartbroken

Well, the unthinkable has happened. We are expecting a baby due August 8th and at our 17 week appt yesterday, during our routine ultrasound, we learned our baby had just died. I really just can't understand how this has happened. We had a great ultrasound at 9 weeks, a great ultrasound and blood work at 12.5 weeks, and another ultrasound (at a 3D/4D private facility) at 15 weeks. We had found out that we were having a girl. I finally felt like we had relaxed after seeing her wiggle all around at that 15 week US. Yesterday came out of nowhere. I have had no cramping or spotting. It still all feels surreal. Because of how far along I am the doctor really recommended that I go to the hospital and deliver. I just can't. I asked for some other way. I just can't go to labor and delivery, go through all the pain of labor and some pushing and leave without her. So, he is going to give me a cervix dialator

medication on Sunday (which hopefully won't throw me into labor anyways) and then on Monday morning I will go to the surgery center and be put to sleep while they remove her. It just seems more peaceful this way. I just pray that I don't go into labor at home Sunday with all of my other 4 children here. I don't want them to see me in any physical pain - the emotional pain has been traumatizing enough for all of us. Their little hearts are just broken. We had gone last weekend and let them each pick out a baby outfit as well as some binkies and bottles. I just feel broken. Bethany (mom to Allie 12, Cameron 8, twins Braden (DS) and Grant 6, and our little angel girl)

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March 1, 2008

I am so sorry to hear that your baby has died. Not to give unexpected hope, but have you had a second opinion? I had a neighbour that was given the same diagnosis and delivered early only to find out that her baby was still alive. He is now approx 25 yrs old and although slow to some degree (you wouldn't know it unless you got to know him really well) is alive and healthy. Bethany wrote: Well, the unthinkable has happened. We are expecting a baby due August 8th and at

our 17 week appt yesterday, during our routine ultrasound, we learned our baby had just died. I really just can't understand how this has happened. We had a great ultrasound at 9 weeks, a great ultrasound and blood work at 12.5 weeks, and another ultrasound (at a 3D/4D private facility) at 15 weeks. We had found out that we were having a girl. I finally felt like we had relaxed after seeing her wiggle all around at that 15 week US. Yesterday came out of nowhere. I have had no cramping or spotting. It still all feels surreal. Because of how far along I am the doctor really recommended that I go to the hospital and deliver. I just can't. I asked for some other way. I just can't go to labor and delivery, go through all the pain of labor and some pushing and leave without her. So, he is going to give me a cervix dialator medication on Sunday (which hopefully won't throw me into labor anyways) and then on Monday morning I

will go to the surgery center and be put to sleep while they remove her. It just seems more peaceful this way. I just pray that I don't go into labor at home Sunday with all of my other 4 children here. I don't want them to see me in any physical pain - the emotional pain has been traumatizing enough for all of us. Their little hearts are just broken. We had gone last weekend and let them each pick out a baby outfit as well as some binkies and bottles. I just feel broken. Bethany (mom to Allie 12, Cameron 8, twins Braden (DS) and Grant 6, and our little angel girl)

March 1, 2008

Oh Bethany. My heart aches for your family. I will say a prayer for peace for your family.Well, the unthinkable has happened. We are expecting a baby due August 8th and at our 17 week appt yesterday, during our routine ultrasound, we learned our baby had just died. I really just can't understand how this has happened. We had a great ultrasound at 9 weeks, a great ultrasound and blood work at 12.5 weeks, and another ultrasound (at a 3D/4D private facility) at 15 weeks. We had found out that we were having a girl. I finally felt like we had relaxed after seeing her wiggle all around at that 15 week US. Yesterday came out of nowhere. I have had no cramping or spotting. It still all feels surreal. Because of how far along I am the doctor really recommended that I go to the hospital and deliver. I just can't. I asked for some other way. I just can't go to labor and delivery, go through all the pain of labor and some pushing and leave without her. So, he is going to give me a cervix dialator medication on Sunday (which hopefully won't throw me into labor anyways) and then on Monday morning I will go to the surgery center and be put to sleep while they remove her. It just seems more peaceful this way. I just pray that I don't go into labor at home Sunday with all of my other 4 children here. I don't want them to see me in any physical pain - the emotional pain has been traumatizing enough for all of us. Their little hearts are just broken. We had gone last weekend and let them each pick out a baby outfit as well as some binkies and bottles. I just feel broken. Bethany (mom to Allie 12, Cameron 8, twins Braden (DS) and Grant 6, and our little angel girl)

March 2, 2008

Bethany-

God WILL be with you-he WILL help you get thru this. Believe...Pray....

My heart goes out to you and family.

Heath and Dana Haedge-Texas

Brenan and Brice-3 both Ds

Hayden-5

Kambree-12

---- Bethany wrote: