Guest guest Posted April 26, 2006 Report Share Posted April 26, 2006 Interesting you should mention OCD...I've been noticing some 'strange' behavior from my 4 year old the past couple of weeks that I'm beginning to think may be OCD related!?? At meal times, after every bite, he either has to slap his face with his right hand if he doesn't like the bite of food he was offered. Sometimes he hits his face so hard, he cries. OR, he'll tap the table with his left hand (and make a 'good sound' if he does like the food. The weird thing is (as if that's not weird enough) that most often he signs for the food we're offering him. So, it's not like we're forcing him to eat something he doesn't like. He'll ask for it and then get mad and hit himself because he really doesn't want it or like it. I've ignored since it started, hoping it would diminish. Today, I tried something new. I actually stopped his hand from either slapping his face, or tapping the table. That made him really mad! He 'fought' me each time and screamed because he couldn't slap or tap! This is so new...and I'm not sure how to handle it!!! It definitely makes meal times frustrating....for him and me! Any ideas what to do? Thanks, Sandy, mom to Josiah, age 4, DS/ASD OCD/meds I had to share with you what a friend's DS-Aut son who is about 9 or ten is doing now. We were talking about OCD issues and she mentioned that he has just started going down on one knee as if to be knighted or something before he eats, or goes to school, or gets in the car....anything. I know it's sad but it's also pretty funny. I asked her if she were demanding this from him now, like wearing a tiara or something and having him call her " Queen Mum " . This topic came up on another list as someone mentioned Trileptal (?) for OCD. Anyone here had experience with it? It's an antiseizure drug I know. She said her child had no side effects an all the behaviors magically disappeared. I thought jamie might be getting over this until she had a crying meltdown last night because dh hung a beach towel over the shower rod (the curtain and all doors must ALWAYS be open). It's so sad. Then I heard from moms of 2 boys who have to have all the doors closed so I'm thinking jamie may not have an easy time of it finding a mate :-) Regarding the GI meds you've all mentioned, Prevacid actually did help but the doc is figuring we are in maintenance mode now and because her dose has been so high for 4 years he's hoping that perhaps the other type med (like Zantac or whatever) may help her without causing the nutritional problems she's having. Let's just say I'm never too optimistic when it comes to trying her on anything. If there's gonna be a reaction Miss wiil surely have it. The Luvox didn't do much either one way or the other but she did develop the rare side effect of chronic cough. sigh. I'm guessing Zantac never helped any of you all very much? Go ahead tell me, I can take it. Sherry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2006 Report Share Posted April 26, 2006 Sandy: Drs recommend you ignore the self-hitting. Tori does this all the time. The more you bring attention to it, the more they seem to do it. Liz-Mom to Tori 6 yo OCD/meds > > > I had to share with you what a friend's DS-Aut son who is about 9 or ten > is doing now. We were talking about OCD issues and she mentioned that he > has just started going down on one knee as if to be knighted or something > before he eats, or goes to school, or gets in the car....anything. I know > it's sad but it's also pretty funny. I asked her if she were demanding > this from him now, like wearing a tiara or something and having him call > her " Queen Mum " . > > This topic came up on another list as someone mentioned Trileptal (?) for > OCD. Anyone here had experience with it? It's an antiseizure drug I know. > She said her child had no side effects an all the behaviors magically > disappeared. > > I thought jamie might be getting over this until she had a crying > meltdown last night because dh hung a beach towel over the shower rod (the > curtain and all doors must ALWAYS be open). It's so sad. Then I heard from > moms of 2 boys who have to have all the doors closed so I'm thinking jamie > may not have an easy time of it finding a mate :-) > > Regarding the GI meds you've all mentioned, Prevacid actually did help > but the doc is figuring we are in maintenance mode now and because > her dose has been so high for 4 years he's hoping that perhaps the other > type med (like Zantac or whatever) may help her without causing the > nutritional problems she's having. Let's just say I'm never too optimistic > when it comes to trying her on anything. If there's gonna be a reaction > Miss wiil surely have it. The Luvox didn't do much either one way or > the other but she did develop the rare side effect of chronic cough. sigh. > I'm guessing Zantac never helped any of you all very much? Go ahead tell > me, I can take it. > Sherry > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2006 Report Share Posted April 26, 2006 > > I thought jamie might be getting over this until she had a crying meltdown last night because dh hung a beach towel over the shower rod (the curtain and all doors must ALWAYS be open). It's so sad. Then I heard from moms of 2 boys who have to have all the doors closed so I'm thinking jamie may not have an easy time of it finding a mate :-) > > Sherry This leaves out as he would like every shower curtain closed, all towels in its placed, doors closed, & lights off. He is the opposite. Hope all turns out for . Irma,17,DS/ASD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2006 Report Share Posted April 27, 2006 In a message dated 4/27/2006 12:22:47 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, ICANFIELD@... writes: every shower curtain closed, all towels in its placed, doors closed, & lights off Trisha is somewhere in=between, most of the time she wants her door closed to her room with a few exceptions and the other doors well that has always been a battle, if I open them to get fresh air in she will come and shut them but the shower curtain she is just allowing me to close when we use the hand held shower but as soon as she is finished with the hand-held then the curtain has to come open. She prefers to sit in her room in the dark except for the light of the T. V. and computer and she sometimes comes and turns off the light where I am and I have to tell her to turn it back on. Wherever Trisha originally sees things is where she wants them to go back. She is better about the furniture now, but up until recently if I moved furniture around she would try to move it back where it was. Although the other day I caught her trying to " move " her computer out to the porch. (this is not a laptop computer) She moves everything with her when she goes on the porch and puts it in the same order as she had it in her bedroom. I fixed the back porch for her to play on with a small area rug and she drags her movies and her special toys and books and lines them up the same way she does in her room. She has taken over the porch as if it's second room for her. lol Carol Trishasmom She isn't Typical, She's Trisha! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2006 Report Share Posted April 27, 2006 In a message dated 4/27/2006 7:07:16 PM Eastern Standard Time, gldcst@... writes: older ones want to live with all the doors closed. Yes, likes doors closed also. and all lights on please! lol Vi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2006 Report Share Posted April 27, 2006 <<This leaves out as he would like every shower curtain closed, all towels in its placed, doors closed, & lights off. He is the opposite.>> OK so the younger boys are already taken and the older ones want to live with all the doors closed. Hmmmmm it's gonna be a long lonely single life for Miss jamie LOL Sherry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 27, 2006 Report Share Posted April 27, 2006 <<She is better about the furniture now, but up until recently if I moved furniture around she would try to move it back where it was. Although the other day I caught her trying to " move " her computer out to the porch. (this is not a laptop computer) >> Ah this is a great visual!!! LOL We're still fighting over the new clothes hamper- I put it in her room; a little while later it is out in the living room. She kept it in there for a whole day this week tho. Before the stroller was an option, used to move all the furniture around in the doctor's offices; She had to make straight rows so she could walk back and forth between the rows. Come to think of it we used to get into appointments alot quicker before the stroller and earphones. Sherry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2006 Report Share Posted April 28, 2006 In a message dated 4/26/2006 8:21:07 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, rsd@... writes: I've ignored since it started, hoping it would diminish. Today, I tried something new. I actually stopped his hand from either slapping his face, or tapping the table. That made him really mad! He 'fought' me each time and screamed because he couldn't slap or tap! This is so new...and I'm not sure how to handle it!!! It definitely makes meal times frustrating....for him and me! Any ideas what to do? Sandy, how about letting him smack something more appropriate.......the table top, a book. Something besides his face. Seems like maybe he gets feedback from the sound it makes? Maddie ADORES watching things fall, for the sound as well as the visual. Yesterday it was our giant ottoman, right down the hall steps......she giggled hysterically afterwards.....little bugger!!! Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2006 Report Share Posted April 28, 2006 luvox worked the best for nathan's ocd. shawna OCD/meds >I had to share with you what a friend's DS-Aut son who is about 9 or ten is >doing now. We were talking about OCD issues and she mentioned that he has >just started going down on one knee as if to be knighted or something >before he eats, or goes to school, or gets in the car....anything. I know >it's sad but it's also pretty funny. I asked her if she were demanding this >from him now, like wearing a tiara or something and having him call her > " Queen Mum " . > > This topic came up on another list as someone mentioned Trileptal (?) for > OCD. Anyone here had experience with it? It's an antiseizure drug I know. > She said her child had no side effects an all the behaviors magically > disappeared. > > I thought jamie might be getting over this until she had a crying meltdown > last night because dh hung a beach towel over the shower rod (the curtain > and all doors must ALWAYS be open). It's so sad. Then I heard from moms of > 2 boys who have to have all the doors closed so I'm thinking jamie may not > have an easy time of it finding a mate :-) > > Regarding the GI meds you've all mentioned, Prevacid actually did help > but the doc is figuring we are in maintenance mode now and because > her dose has been so high for 4 years he's hoping that perhaps the other > type med (like Zantac or whatever) may help her without causing the > nutritional problems she's having. Let's just say I'm never too optimistic > when it comes to trying her on anything. If there's gonna be a reaction > Miss wiil surely have it. The Luvox didn't do much either one way or > the other but she did develop the rare side effect of chronic cough. sigh. > I'm guessing Zantac never helped any of you all very much? Go ahead tell > me, I can take it. > Sherry > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2006 Report Share Posted April 28, 2006 <<luvox worked the best for nathan's ocd. shawna>> Yeah, a I heard this from you and several others on this list which is why it was the first one we tried. Leave it to - what can you expect from a kid who wants doors open instead of closed? LOL Sherry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 28, 2006 Report Share Posted April 28, 2006 Thanks for your comments Donna. Josiah DOES love sound input. He's forever hurling things to the ground to watch them shatter and hear the sounds they make. I'll try giving him something else to hit..hadn't thought of that! : - ) Sandy Re: OCD/meds In a message dated 4/26/2006 8:21:07 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, rsd@... writes: I've ignored since it started, hoping it would diminish. Today, I tried something new. I actually stopped his hand from either slapping his face, or tapping the table. That made him really mad! He 'fought' me each time and screamed because he couldn't slap or tap! This is so new...and I'm not sure how to handle it!!! It definitely makes meal times frustrating....for him and me! Any ideas what to do? Sandy, how about letting him smack something more appropriate.......the table top, a book. Something besides his face. Seems like maybe he gets feedback from the sound it makes? Maddie ADORES watching things fall, for the sound as well as the visual. Yesterday it was our giant ottoman, right down the hall steps......she giggled hysterically afterwards.....little bugger!!! Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 30, 2006 Report Share Posted April 30, 2006 OK so the younger boys are already taken and the older ones want to live with all the doors closed. Hmmmmm it's gonna be a long lonely single life for Miss jamie LOL Sherry Sherry, My response to this would be, you just never know with these days, he loves it when girls tell him what to do. Yesterday though was one of those days that he wanted all the doors shut but when were over at one of my friends house it really did not bother him. As long as he had his bag of DVD's and whatever dangly toy of the week. Irma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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