Guest guest Posted April 17, 2006 Report Share Posted April 17, 2006 I agree, in Ny child support is for the life of the child if the child is dd. And you would get 33% of what he makes. Child care would be split.And so would insurance therapy if the child is not on medcaid I have a friend that works in family court she told me this. Laurie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 17, 2006 Report Share Posted April 17, 2006 Sara, to be honest I got screwed...... I am lucky the azz signed the divorce papers after dragging it on for four years..... I don't get alimony and haven't had child support in a while..... You see it's quite a complicated story...but his dad hooked up with a former Russian mail order bride who sued a large corporation because she alleged her mail order hubby abused her so she got a ton I mean a ton of money...... more than I will make in my lifetime. He got a job with an out of country firm so his wages are hard to track and garnish........ I know this all sounds unbelievable but I live it so trust me its true........ they just bought a 750,000 dollar house..... and yet I am trying to figure out a way to pay for cams glasses....... but...... I know people say fight go to court, blah blah blah.... I spent four years in court and countless hours puking my guts up and pooping my brains out over that turmoil....... it's not worth it... Yes we struggle and yes we go without alot of stuff....... but the stress of my life now is MY STRESS.... I don't need him and I will survive without him... I put myself through college, bought a house and am making a life for my kids.... its not much of one, but its ours to do with as we choose....... is it fair that he has the high life and no worries..... probably not but it all comes around full circle.....I truly feel he will pay in some way or another... let it be in Gods hands because I have washed him out of my life.... okay enough complaining........... sara cohen wrote: I wonder.......if Cam went to Dad when he was sick so Dad can take time off to care for him????? Or he could drive to your house to care for Ashton when you are without a sitter....... Where is your alimony Leah?? Don't we have a divorce lawyer on this list who could work with the more than half Mom's who are left when they have kids with disAbilities???????? Sara - Choose to make lemonade, not complain about the lemons. >From: charlyne olko >Reply-To: >To: >Subject: Re: arggggg uggggggg ackkkkkk >Date: Mon, 17 Apr 2006 08:12:54 -0700 (PDT) > >Hi Leah, > I wasn't aware that you had an agreement. I would figure out how he >could take some of the responsibility off of you when Cam is sick. I know >the ex really screwed you. If the agreement ever gets changed I think you >should move near me. > Charlyne > Mom to Zeb 13 DS/OCD/ASD? > >Leah Baker wrote: > >char...... you dont know how many times I wish I could move closer to >people who are like me..... its so hard to be alone...... sighhhhhh but >with cam I can't leave the state cuz of the custody agreement...... even >though he's an azz....sighhhhhh >charlyne olko wrote: Hi Leah, >I hope your Monday get better. I think you should hook up with a stay at >home Mom to swap kids or barter services or better yet move near me. >Charlyne >Mom to Zeb 13 DS/OCD/ASD? > >Leah Baker wrote: >Well Liz and everyone else,,,,,,,,this must be the time for all of us to be >challenged....Cam was sick last week and I missed a ton of work..... then >today.....my caregiver is supposed to be here at 730.... I called and 700 >to make sure she was out of bed........ sighhhh its now 858 and no >caregiver....... I can't afford to lose my job as in I am the only parent >only income which aint much...lol my job has been very understanding, but >when I called in a few minutes ago and said Ashton wasn't feeling well(big >fat white lie and I feel like fresh dog doo) for telling it but what else >was I supposed to do...... the administrator wasn't every happy to say the >least...... I am livid at this point..... I called her home phone, >machine....left messages........called cell phone nooooo >answer......imagine that...... I hate when people aren't dependable...... >(like I have room to talk) but at least have the common courtesy to call >and give a heads up..........arggggggggggggggggggg >least now I can take the bra and hose off and be freeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee >:-) Guess I shall run another ad in the dratted newspaper........ I think I >should contact a reality tv show to come fix and organize my life........ >sighhhh > >leah hugs to all on this horrible monday. > > >--------------------------------- >Yahoo! Messenger with Voice. PC-to-Phone calls for ridiculously low rates. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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