I'm Furious, any suggestions?

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My 13 year old (aspergers)grandddaughter came home from school

yesterday in a fowl mood. We started doing her grueling two hours of

homework. Somewhere in the conversation she began telling me how all

the kids went to the nurses office and someone was in there examining

their spines. The women told her to take off her sweatshirt. She was

very resistant and asked why (got to love her) The women told her

that she just wanted to check her spine for scoliosis. My

granddaughet just had her physical three weeks ago (she is the one

that called the Dr a pervert, remember the post) and the MD checked

her spine. She told the women she did not want to do take her shirt

off and that her Dr. just checked her for this. This is what

infuriates me. She was told its the law you have to let me check you.

I gave no consent for them to check her. Then I did something I

shouldn't have. I started to yell at her for not holding her ground.

I told her she had every right to refuse and demand that they call

me. She said she did not know. I told her in the future if that

happens never allow the school to do any medical check up on her. I

alwasy keep her home from school when they have the flu shot clinics

for this particular reason. Then I said to her, what if they were

lining kids up for the flu shot and told you it was the law. What

would you do then? She said she would run from the building. I told

her NO ONE has the right to force you to take off any of yours

clothes, or check any part of your body without my permisssion. I

have to tell you I am smoking right now. 1. they never informed me,

or asked for consent, 2. She lied to her and told her that it was the

law. They are conditioning these kids to believe they have no right

to refuse anything. I want to go to the shool this morning but I'm

affraid I'm going to get into big trouble. Any suggestions? I really

feel I need to address this.