RE: Update on Ian/Christmas

[Guest guest]

>I LOVE hearing Ian's updates. :-) Do you know how much this helps pave

>the way for the rest of us who will walk the road you are on? To know that

>it's possible to *let go* and that your child will do so wonderfully and

>actually blossom? You are a great source of strength for many of us!

>Gail :-)

That's very kind of you to say, Gail. I'm glad I can help in any small way.

Letting go is certainly not easy. What I have to remind myself again and again

is that Ian has his own life to live, and my job isn't to live it for him, but

to support his living it himself. This particular path works best for him, and

I'm grateful for it.

CK,

Mom to Ian (2/89),

(9/90),

and Rose (6/94)