Great School Experience

[Guest guest]

When my daughter was born and we were learning about the whole special needs

world, my husband and I were not looking forward to the school experience. Even

though I was a public school teacher and had attended several IEP and 504

meetings, they didn't mean much until my daughter came along. And the numerous

horror stories of kids with special needs in school is enough to make anyone

decide to homeschool. BUT we did our research, looked around, and decided to

start my daughter in the K4 program at a local Catholic school. We aren't

Catholic, but my husband's family from Connecticut is Catholic and several

nephews attend Catholic school there. The principal at our school met with us

for over an hour at our first visit. She was very encouraging that all students

are welcome, but the school might not be the best for all children. Which makes

sense. If at all possible, a child needs to attend a school that will best meet

their needs. So we decided to give it a try in January with the K4 teacher. It

was a small class, 10 kids and two teachers. My daughter has done great,

learned lots, and loves school. So we began to look at the K5 class, taking

things one step at a time. We talked to the K5 teacher briefly and shared some

concerns and desires about our daughter going to K5. She was excited to have

her in her class and began, of her own free will, without any requests, to

research MDS online. Where of course, she came to the best website for the

topic - the IMDSA website. She contacted our wonderful President of IMDSA who

was great to talk with her through email. The teacher also sent information to

the school guidance counselor so she would know more about MDS as well.

Needless to say, we are looking forward to a great school year in a nuturing,

challenging environment. I realize everyone does not have the same

opportunities in education. I consider my family to be very fortunate to find

this school. But I wanted to share my story to encourage the other parents out

there who are dreading the education/school process. The more involved you can

be in your child's education the better. Teachers and schools typically

appreciate an active, supportive parent willing to work with the school,

teachers, and children. I'll keep you posted on our progress through the

education process, one step at a time.

Esther Dennis

mom to Millie - 5 in July!