O.K. Folks Need you input on private matter.

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Some may think this is not the place to post this but I do need input here as it does concern my health allot. Most of you know me and my folks have not spoke in a long time due to something's they have done to hurt me. My baby sister has been pushing me to call my mom ..I have not done this or visited as when I do I get so upset I go into a bad flare. Never mind making me Mad as heck.

So I wrote little sister and asked her what she thought about me writing a letter to my folks explaining what they did this time and how it hurt me..Also explaining this is the reason I have not been in contact.

First let me say I know deep inside that telling them they hurt me will do nothing other then getting it off my chest<sigh> they seem to think they do no wrong.

Anyways here is little sister's response to it.

>>As far as the mom thing, all I can tell you is that she needs to hereyour voice. I would just make the call, and see what comes up. If sheaskes tell her. Mom might be upset, but at least you have been honestwith her. I know how hard it is to reason with her sometimes. Justtell her that Ray told you everything that they said, and you were hurt.You didn't think that they were gonna get involved, and when you foundout that they not only got involved, but was bad mouthing you, you werehurt.I just know that with s dad dieing, it has made me realize that Idon't want to try and jam a life time into a short time like hadto do. Scares me I guess. I don't know if you and <brother> really realizehow bad things can get in a hurry. I know that they have done some badthings to us that we wouldn't think a parent should do, but I just thinkthat there is a time to say they wont always be here, and I know howthey are. I know that some of the things they have done to you wereunforgivable, but God will judge that.I hope that I have helped a little, I have to close for right now

So I guess what I am asking here from you all what is your point of view on this.?Perhaps you all not being close up to the problem would shed some light that I have not seen.

Roy <DH> said it is up to me of course but he does not want to see me sick again as he has before when I got off the phone with them....I mean hugging the john sick too...

So please forgive me if you think this is not for here, but where else can I post this except for those who also deal with this DD..

Have A Good Day!Theresa