I dont know what to do...

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Hey guys,

I've been in a paradox over what to do for my situation because I dont want to

feel like this anymore and I dont know what to do or how to handle it. You know

about my mother, as I have moved out yet she hasnt cut the apron strings.

I've had an idea by cutting all ties myself and thought of suggesting some space

in order of a trial separation. I really dont want to hurt her. I've been

battling with myself whether to do it or not.

For some reason we can communicate in person over personal matters as we dont do

too well with confrontation. I need some space though as I'm tired of feeling

this way and I need to do something in order to stop my pain.

I've been tearing up myself because I want my space but still want her help on

my terms and I dont know how to deal with it. I'm going to do a mock letter

later on after my london trip and ask you your advice after proof reading it. I

hope thats ok.

You all have been the best support in my life, I wish my family could be just

like you. My mother will be told of how I've been feeling. Yet I havent been

good in that in the past. I dont tell her about what I'm feeling over my

important matters because she keeps refusing to help me with them. Plus I've

quit telling her partner because he just laughs in my face over what I'm doing.

I've had enough now, I need it to stop but dont know how to handle it.

Thank you all.

-May Minett