Guest guest Posted December 11, 2006 Report Share Posted December 11, 2006 Hi, how are you today? I lurk a lot here, and get alot of strength and insight from this group. Thank you all for working so hard at yourselves and having the courage to heal and try to break away from old patterns. Today I feel like posting, I have been thinking about how I always had to present this strong, unbreakable outer shell to the world of FOO, and therefore the rest of the world. Are the split-black/bad ones of us more likely to have to be the " strong one " ? Nada would always tell me things like " oh you're strong, you can handle it " and any feelings or vulnerabilities I had would be swept under the rug because " you are so strong " , " you are the strong one " . I had this shell that I took out into the world, like I can handle anything. It has taken me a long time to realize alot happened to me that was too hard for me to handle. Only now can I feel the pain from all the past hurts. Walking to happiness. --------------------------------- Have a burning question? Go to Yahoo! Answers and get answers from real people who know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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