How to explain it- frying pan didn't help

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Hi all,

My fiance seems to think that since I can throw a bowling ball once a week

during a league, I shouldn't have any problem doing housework. He doesn't seem

to understand. I work full time, have three children ages 9, 10 and 14 and am

working on a post masters degree too.... and he can't understand why I don't

feel up to doing housework the way he wants things????

I suggest a maid. He says it's not necessary- I should be able to do it. How

would you explain RA to him if you were me.... I've already tried hitting

him over the head with a frying pan, nothing works.

Abby